Dispute over the household in the relationship? These tips will help

There is no need to have a permanent dispute about the budget in the relationship.

With these tips you can easily avoid the hassle of unevenly distributed housework.

• Again and again the topic of

  household

  leads

  to arguments

  in

  relationships

  .

• But

  housework

  doesn't have to be a

  relationship killer

  .

• These

  tips

  for consumers

  can help

  avoid

  arguments

  .

Offenbach - Anger and dispute about the

ranks

high

on the list of

killers.

Sentences like "I'm not the

" are

repeated

in every

, no

how good

.

Often one has

or a partner feel to make the household more than the other.

Anger about the partner's apparently neglected duties in

build up and often lead to quarrels.

But the budget does not have to become a controversial topic, because a few simple

can avoid such anger.

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There is no need to have a dispute about the household in a relationship, with these tips you can avoid trouble (symbol picture).

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Avoid disputes about the budget in the relationship: delegate and create common to-do lists

When it comes to the

, as in other areas of the

, a clear delegation of tasks is important.

So make a weekly

for

.

Discuss beforehand who would like to take on which work and distribute the unpleasant work as fairly as possible.

Also think about how much time the respective household chores require - because with this

avoid another controversial topic.

Because sometimes we tend to

assess

our work contribution, be it in the

or elsewhere, greater than our

.

This, too, can lead to misunderstandings and

in the

.

However, if you

clearly discuss

the amount of

beforehand, this controversial topic can be avoided.

Because you have already agreed in advance how great the effort of the individual tasks will be.

Household as a controversial topic in the relationship: Doing housework together

Each

does not have to do

their

share of the

for themselves.

Dan Carlson, an assistant professor at the Chair of Family and Consumer Studies at the University of Utah, told Th Atlantic that both

can benefit from

together.

activities

, such as

, can easily be done together.

While one

washing up, the other can dry off.

But the

can also be stored together and cooked together in the evening.

Behind this there are many advantages for the

, because working together on a common task can

closer together.

One can also use being together to get into conversation with each other again, which also has a positive effect on relationships.

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Avoid dispute over household issues in the relationship: praise, praise, praise

It's a seemingly simple

, and yet it is

often and happily forgotten

in

:

.

Because even though

chores are routine work that often simply has to be done, praising your partner can move mountains here too.

And not only the

benefits from the praise

, but you too.

As the website “Dr.

Stress “emphasizes, praise releases

and

and thus even promotes work ability.

And not only with the other person, but also with yourself. Praising your

for a job they have done in the

can make not only you happy, but also yourself.

The website has also worked out how to properly praise:

• Even seemingly everyday routine work takes time and effort and deserves praise here and there.

• Praise what started, what was done, and what went well.

• Avoid exaggerated vocabulary such as “super” or “really great”.

• Adding the word “already” to a description is already a praise, because you honor that the partner has already started something.

Avoid arguing about housework in the relationship: It doesn't have to be all 50:50

In order

not to let

the

mutate into a controversial topic

in the

, open and positive communication is particularly important.

However

, it is not

a tough 50:50 division of the

.

Above all, it is important that both

feel comfortable with their tasks in the relationship, even if that means that one is doing a little more.

Incidentally, baking soda is a real all-rounder in the household, making it much easier to do a lot of housework.

(Sophia Lother)

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