Charo would like to have a partner exchange place in his city. He would love it, although he would never dare to go. Charo lives in Albacete and says that if there was a place with these characteristics, everyone would know who is going. "And I would be very embarrassed. In this city we all know each other, something like that would be a scandal," he says. Just thinking that the parents of their children's friends could find out, it gets bad. In his speech he does not mention that there would be any chance of finding them, when is what usually happens when you go to a local for the exchange of couples in your municipality. It would not be the first or the last one that, when entering the premises, greeted another mother of the school who had gone there to exactly the same as her.
The exchange of couples and liberal sex is not something that only happens in the big capitals. Charo has been with the same partner for more than thirty years. Until he started this exchange he had not been with another man who was not the one he married in the church in his neighborhood. Now that he has done so, he refuses to dispense with those sporadic relationships. "I love my husband. He is my perfect accomplice. But I ca n't wish for it as much as at the beginning. We have been together all my life. I know him better than anyone. I like sex with him, but I don't want him to be the only one ." It is not that he has no desire, it is that he does not want only and exclusively the man he has been sleeping with for thirty years. And the same thing happens to her husband. Routine is the worst aphrodisiac for long-distance couples and the best reason to look for alternatives.
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Not following monogamy only affects the couple that violates the norm. Quiet all those who are from an exclusive couple, no matter how much their neighbor, the fifth, likes the exchange of partners, will not force them to have sex with her. In liberal sex it may cost a little to maintain relationships with strangers, but, normally, what we manage worse is to see our partner with the new guests. María Ramos, psychosexologist responsible for the psychology area of the Association of Liberal People of Asturias, warns of how important it is to know how to manage jealousy for anyone: "They are an emotion that badly managed can lead to many problems because they feed on the mixture of distrust, bad communication and low self-esteem. " Jealousy is a time bomb that, with the exchange of partners is exacerbated : "In the exchange of couples rub the boundaries that can lead to what would be a situation worthy of causing jealousy in a conventional context. That is why it is basic for the couple to work on the circumstances that may give rise to it. In liberal relationships it is part of communication, respect and loyalty . "
Charo was very uncomfortable to see her husband having sex with her lovers. I could not stand the image. If he has a good time, because he has a good time. If you have a bad time because you have a bad time. It feels bad whatever happens, so there was nothing left to talk about it and, now, although they go to appointments together, sex does not take place in the same room. The meetings are held in separate rooms. They find their lovers through the Web, in specific portals that unite couples with the same intentions. For them, couples.com and onswingers.com are among the best.
Stipulated rules, conditions and honesty on the part of all involved. Letting others in our bed implies minimal conditions. We talked about testing ourselves as a couple. And it is not easy.
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