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Written by: Lu Nuojun
2020-05-10 07:00
Last update date: 2020-05-10 07:00All schools in Hong Kong have been suspended for several months under the New Coronary Pneumonia epidemic. Parents are struggling to make their children "stop without stopping." For SEN parents, the period of the epidemic is even more strenuous. The children of SEN have already gone very hard on the way of learning. How much can they actually learn and understand if they are adapted to the online teaching of video and filming?
Mother's Day is ushered in the haze of the epidemic. SEN mother Li Tai revealed that for many years she has simply "eaten meals" to spend Mother's Day. Under heavy homework pressure this year, she seized the opportunity instead and cherished the extra parent-child time during the suspension. , She is more proud to say: "Learn to teach teachers who don't manage homework!" The daughter suffers from dyslexia, anxiety, low concentration and hyperactivity. Her literacy level may be inferior to other children, but she is less than one. Reason, "Actually, you just want the kids to be happy after they start to wander, and they want to learn how to learn as soon as they leave a belly." The world wants the kids to compete for the ranking, but Li Tai remembers to get up again this year. The most basic and original intention for mothers is to make children happy and healthy.
During the summer vacation about 4 years ago, Axin was assessed to have dyslexia, anxiety, low concentration and hyperactivity. (Photo by Lu Nuojun)
Li Tai, who has two daughters, and eldest daughter Axin attending Primary Six, Axin usually looks lively and cheerful, but since she was a child, when her mood swings and expressions are not understood, her hands and feet will rub together unconsciously. The bleeding of the cuticle will not stop. During the summer vacation about 4 years ago, Axin was assessed to have dyslexia, anxiety, low concentration and hyperactivity. Li Taiyi recounted that it was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, only knowing to blame himself constantly: "Suddenly there are a lot of problems, and I will ask myself what is wrong with the side? The solution will cause me to ... Yeah, when Qu Xuanjue felt, I actually looked at Qu and shouted, but I do n’t know. "
"It looks like it's going all the way, but it's a good feeling." This situation lasted for more than 2 years. Li Tai described that the path of SEN parents is not easy. On this day, A Xin was listening to her mother's bitterness, but she asked innocently, "When do you call me?"
When Ah Xin was young, whenever he had emotional fluctuations and didn't understand expression, his hands and feet would rub against each other unconsciously, and he still didn't know how to stop until the cuticle was damaged and bleeding. (Photo by Lu Nuojun)
The doctor only called the food and medicine teacher to threaten to resist school
"I really don't know how to confirm the diagnosis, the government will provide support, and the doctor will call it Quxi. I don't concentrate? Hyperactivity? Taking medicine. But then I found out that all patients eat it The same medicine. "Li Taizhi said that A Xin has been" pulling hands and feet "since he was 1 year old. He has repeatedly told the doctors and nurses in the health center that they all said it was normal. When he was in the second grade, Axin followed the doctor's instructions to take drugs that claimed to improve concentration, but then had a headache and was unable to attend class. Affected by dyslexia, Axin was constantly chased homework by the teacher, and it was a habit to punish him for staying in the classroom. Li Tai was not too demanding. "On the other hand, Axin was reluctant to go to school, and Li discovered that the problem was not so simple.
For those who are not familiar with SEN children, children who like to run around and write "mirror characters" because of naughtiness and laziness will not be able to catch up with school, and teachers in mainstream schools may not have learned how to deal with it. Mr. Li pointed out that excluding the subjects that require "words" such as Chinese, English, and Mathematics, Axin performed well in visual arts, sports, and computer science. "I don't need A to carry B"; but there were teachers. He said to Axin, "If I owe my homework again, I will deal with you", so that Axin, who used to love school, became afraid of going to school for a while, "The method obviously used by teachers is like a piece "I don't know if the key is twisted, it will open to the door, but I feel like it's lazy." Li Taizeng reported the problem to the school, but the incident did not end because Axin lost his motivation to learn. At a young age, she even said:
I ’m okay, I do n’t know if I ’m dyslexic, I ’m not sure, I ’m wrong, do you want me to say acridine?
Axin's literacy level may be inferior to other children, but he can make fine handicrafts. (Photo by Lu Nuojun)
"Let's call homework after the epidemic"
Schools in Hong Kong have been suspended in recent months in response to the outbreak of new coronary pneumonia. Many parents have racked their brains to keep their children up to date. Schools have also introduced video teaching. Students still have to learn and hand in homework during the suspension. Mr. Li said that SEN families must face the pressure from the school. "Even if you look like Qu and go to the classroom, even if the teacher filmed every week, don't learn on behalf of Qu. If the school is doing it, I think I have taught you Yeah, but when Qu (daughter) doesn't know all of them, she just chases me. "
Li Taizhi said that the school still gave students a lot of homework as usual during the suspension, but Axin ’s learning progress has been lagging behind, making it difficult to cope with the homework requirements. Mr. Li described the teacher as "chasing homework every week", "Listening to your video (teacher) lectures, Qu (daughter) can't learn anything. Do you want to do it arbitrarily? ". In the later period, Li Tai simply ignored the school's "homework call", seized this sudden extra parent-child time, and got along well with A Xin, "I will talk to A woman, I will chase you, I will play other things with you It's better, at least you will be happy. " She said that A Xin usually loves to make handicrafts, such as beading, light clay, painting, 3D pens, wool felt dolls, etc., and his home always has "stocks". A Xin has also produced music seats, bouncing waves, and shining stones in recent months. Paintings and other works, "Actually, I know that my sister (A Xin) will secretly compare with A Mei. When you read K1, you will be rewarded by a good student once you return to school. If you read K3, your sister will say:" You are good Well, I have n’t tried to win awards in reading for many years. ", I told you that you read Amei Lai Lao, but you can make handmade Lami."
It ’s okay to praise yourself. During this period of learning, I ignored the teacher ’s homework.
Li TaiHope for Mother's Day: Children are happy
Today is Mother ’s Day. As always, A Xin will follow her mother to her grandmother ’s house to celebrate, “I will cut the cake and celebrate my sister ’s birthday by the way, and Qudu will be very whole-hearted. (Little crafts) are always there.” Li Taixiao said. Ordinary was originally happiness, but many parents in today's society require their children to "win at the starting line" and constantly urge the children in different aspects. Some of them have already learned French and Spanish at the kindergarten stage, but Li Tai hopes only 2 The daughter can grow up healthily and happily. "From the stomach, you just want the child to be happy after he starts. You don't need to ask him to take the exam first ... I'll explain how you want to leave You have to learn how to learn how to do it, what kind of childhood do you want to understand? "
Li Tai revealed that A Xin, who is about to be promoted from Primary Six, has been fond of a activity-based middle school many years ago. Among them, she is most looking forward to the zip line and climbing stone in the school, and she has responded to the epidemic earlier. To introduce yourself to the middle school interview by filming yourself, if no accidents have been admitted to the school. Seeing the dawn on the road of growth, Li Tai hopes that her daughter will be happy and happy from now on, "Do not play it, don't you play with the old one first?"
Parents and children are under pressure during the outbreak
The Save the Children Hong Kong has launched the "Training from the Heart" program since 2018. It has cooperated with many schools and community organizations to organize activity groups for parents and children. In view of the situation of suspension of classes and working from home in the epidemic situation, the time for parent-child interaction has become longer. Since early April, the association has cooperated with the Counselling Psychology Department of the Hong Kong Psychological Association to launch the "Childlike Heart Anti-epidemic Parent School" on the Internet. , Registered social workers and representatives of partner groups and parents discuss the most common frictions between some parents and children during the outbreak.
Zhuang Huiya, assistant manager of the Hong Kong Save the Children Hong Kong project, pointed out that many parents report that during the epidemic, they are like a "trapped animal", parents and children are under great pressure, so "non-violent communication skills" are very important. She said that in addition to yelling and swearing, not speaking and ignoring children is also a type of violent communication, but in fact, only a simple three-step process, like a giraffe, calmly macroscopically the whole thing, can ease the parent-child, partner or separation Intergenerational conflict.
Guo Qianheng, chairman of the counseling psychology department of the Hong Kong Psychological Association, pointed out that during the epidemic, SEN parents faced many difficulties and had a great sense of powerlessness. In the counseling of children and young people, contact with parents is very important. Therefore, they hope to provide support to enhance the parents' own perception, let them accept their "imperfections", and teach parent-child communication and learning skills of SEN students. The 13 episodes of the "Childlike Anti-epidemic Parent School" program revolve around online learning and crisis, non-violent discipline, emotions and stress, SEN schoolchildren's difficulties, and children's rights. The last episode will be broadcast on facebook on the 19th of this month . They hope that through the plan, parents can sit at home and master positive parenting skills, understand the needs of their children, and relieve their pressure.
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