Faced with your superior, you have the unpleasant feeling of never being up to it.
No matter the task, you fear disappointing him and being rejected.
If this is your case, it is possible that you are under the influence of your manager, that is to say that you are subject to his influence excessively.
At work, influence is a toxic relationship in which the manager exercises a form of manipulation on an employee or on his team, constantly oscillating between compliments and reproaches, overvaluation and humiliation, defines coach Wadih Choueiri, founder of the collective. of consultants, entrepreneurs and managers Bad pupils and author of
L'emprise au travail
(1).
These insidious behaviors alienate the other and make him lose his autonomy.
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