"It's rare that as a studio you're surprised by a client's choices," writer says. "It really had to be a reflection of his work," she adds.

"That rug was made by a friend, and it's exactly who I am," she writes. "The roles were reversed: Stephen had to convince us of certain options," says writer. "Like a big party, this was a big part of the experience," says author. "You're not the only one who can do this," she says.