Sex and The City taught women of an entire generation that what really matters after having a sexual encounter with a man is whether there was penetration and, of course, that the act ends with one or more orgasms. “For them, sexual relations go far beyond the genitals, penetration and orgasm,” says sexologist, Almudena M.

Ferrer. Coitocentrism has gone out of fashion. The most common practice of women in sex is vaginal penetration (74.6%), even above self-stimulation (66.5%),” according to a 2020 study by the Women's Institute. Only 25% of women have vaginal orgasms without direct stimulation of the clitoris, according to the study. The data supports it “Heterosexual women are the group that achieves the least orgasms, since only 65% of the time they have sex they reach climax, since they have followed a ritual.“The important thing to have sexual education where we know that what matters is desire and pleasure, not reaching a goal through a ritual," says Norma Ageitos Urain.