This is the thing most preschoolers want parents to stop doing

Parents in life will not admit it out loud, and it also fills them with guilt, but the truth is that almost everyone sent sick children to kindergarten, or at least borderline, which is very bad. A Twitter kindergartener’s post raised this topic for discussion and sparked a storm

This is the thing most preschoolers want parents to stop doing

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Parental and horticultural relationships are sometimes not easy. Parents sometimes have trouble trusting horticulture, and they often feel the need to "fix" their parents and create antagonism. And that's before we talked about the garden parties in the morning, excessive demands for birthdays and jealousy during their short working days. From the horticultural side, too, there is quite a bit of difficulty in dealing with parents - from frustration from parents who don't set boundaries to children, parents who do not obey kindergarten laws (not to come in with food!) And to repeatedly lice, because no parent takes their message "prepared comfort" seriously. But with all that, they can still live, because there is one thing that really drives them crazy - parents who send sick children to kindergarten.

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A post posted on Twitter over the weekend by an account called "The Gardener" managed to provoke quite a stir in parents. The anonymous kindergarten teacher wrote: "Five parents made the norphan today, five miserable and turned off children who catch the rest. Don't understand, don't they like their children?" For those who do not understand the judicial post - probably only parents of children who are not yet in kindergarten - we will explain that the kindergarten teacher refers to parents who send a sick child to kindergarten, after giving him a heat-lowering medication to get through the first few hours, and hopefully "it will pass" and they will succeed. Full day in the office.

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While it is clear to everyone that this is wrong, and no parent would want his children exposed to other children’s viruses inside a crowded garden structure, this post has caused a stir. That's because almost every parent has done it once, at some level or another (he's not sure sick, he's almost over it already, he's not really hot just borderline), and the end of the dubious parents' love-making post for their children has hit a sensitive spot .

"Who are you to judge how many parents love their children?"

"There is no parent that this did not happen to him and certainly I am in them. I did not like my children any less because of this, and this inclusive judgment is difficult. For a moment, be a fly on the wall in the years when I raised a third little widow whose husband was killed in a car accident and I had to support. One of the responders. "Don't do the norepin with my child, and still think it's very judgmental what you wrote this time," another mother wrote.

"Obviously they like it. Went to work so they had money to buy them food and warm clothes and pay off a mortgage so they had a roof over their heads that they wouldn't live in the street. Who do you judge how many parents love their kids?" Also: "I was thinking about this, don't think most parents who do Nurofen don't like their children, it is mostly due to a lack of choice, we have become a people of slaves, have long been not workers, but slaves, and slaves, what to do enslaved to masters, and not only The slave is enslaved, also his family, their bodies and their finances, ”another commenter wrote.

The kindergarten teacher replied: "Yes, heat can rise suddenly, yes, the labor market is stressful, but these are your children, the thing that should be dearest to you. They are not mine, I did not give birth to them. In most cases this is the case. I see a lot of parents who love brides But I see too many other parents - parents who may love their children, but will do anything to be with them, and they are quite a few. Parents who neglect, not on a criminal level, just the weeks of non-derogatory lice-tooth-nails ". Judicial, have we already said?

Why do parents send sick children to kindergarten?

Alongside the angry comments on the teacher's post, there were also dozens of comments that are shocking at the thought of having parents sending their child sick to kindergarten, but reality shows that most of this nagging is not really about reality. At every parents' meeting, at every kindergarten, preschoolers ask not to send sick children to kindergarten, some also say they know well if the children are being given a preschool medication, usually because the children tell them about "pink juice in the syringe." Still, it happens time and time again.

Just this week, this message was received by one of the moms in the Walla system! Health: "Winter is underway and the viruses, fever, cough, runny nose, abdominal pain and diarrhea do not miss our parts ... Your children come to kindergarten when they are not feeling well. It is wrong to bring patients or the beginning of the disease to kindergarten. Please take responsibility, treat children and do not let others Getting infected and having the child feel awful and unavailable for nothing in kindergarten. " This message is not unusual, and every parent has seen messages in that spirit in preschool and school groups.

A child must not be returned to the kindergarten before 24 hours have passed from a last 38 degree heat measurement. Sick boy (Photo: shutterstock)

Sick boy (Photo: ShutterStock)

So why are parents still doing this to their children, and to the children of others? It's probably not because they don't like them because the post is claimed, and in the post itself, it can be presumed to be mostly frustration. It may be that the considerations are really only economic - the difficulty of losing another day of work in a very competitive and demanding market, and this can sometimes be a basic misunderstanding of what a child is going through in the event of illness.

If this is the case, let's say: When you send a sick child to kindergarten, whether it's with fever or just a little crushed because of recent illness, it's not available for kindergarten, sometimes even falling asleep while playing, anything more insulting, more angry at it, He does not eat, and he is not in a position to play with his friends. Would you like to go to work like this? And in the net health aspect, when you send a "borderline" kid to kindergarten, you only extend the duration of the illness and keep it from being fully healed. So it doesn't even make sense for your sick days, if that's the consideration.

The rule that you should act in the case of a sick child is that a child must not be returned to kindergarten before a full 24 hours have passed from a last 38 degree heat measurement. Take into account that children really tend to become more easily infected with illness. According to the American Center for Disease Control and Prevention, elementary school children can suffer from cold symptoms on average about 10 times each school year, and for small children it can reach 12 times as well. Now imagine what happens in the 35-year-old kindergarten where sick children are sent. It's a circle you can't leave unless everyone takes responsibility.

A word from a doctor: send to a preschooler with fever? You will pay for it dearly