We are used to wanting love here and now, beautifully packed, sweet and wrapped in marzipan • Then came Hagar and Nir, and taught us that everything can look different • Opinion

• Hagar and Nir. Seven from drama

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  Screenshot from "Wedding at First Sight", Rainbow 12

"Good things come in small packages"It is the moral we have received over the years. And despite everything, we areY-generation, not familiar with the concept. 

Small portions? slowly? gradually? After all, we are programmed, whether it be through the multitude of technological means, the digital revolution or the global world, to want everything at once. here and now. Please fast and pack properly. The perception today is that if it's hard for me, then it probably isn't the right path. "If not simple - then just not." Who knows another way?   

But Hagar and Nir, like their "twin" from the previous season, Shiri and Liran, realized their love (and the way we were also taught) a lesson in love. In the gradual and painfully slow process that began in the wedding episode, intensified slightly in the last two episodes and culminated in the last episode - we saw how that "hard", "injured" girl would say, who built a concrete wall around her and barely managed to smile at her new husband, begins to develop feelings, opens up. to love.   

But one minute, how is that possible? Where are the butterflies and violins, where is the familiar Disney-style courting dance, the one we so crave? All this did not happen to Hagar and Nir, on the contrary. So how could you suddenly grow love here? It seems here is not the exercise - but the age.  

Last chance at love

What is similar between Shiri and Liran and Hagar and Nir? In both cases, the parties arrived seventy, tired and in battle. Everyone crossed the age of 35, and learned a thing or two, more than ten, about likes and dislikes. It seems that all four of these musketeers came to the program as a last resort. Everyone alike had already realized that love did not come easily, and when it did - it was a big, flashing red warning light that could shatter inside.

"A bitter wine, a wild flower, no more because it would be burdensome - but I was 20, I couldn't listen," sings Gali Atari in "Give It a Flower." Moore, Citrus, Ronnie and Danish - what to do - probably still can't listen, and addicted to butterflies and sunsets. Maybe at a second, third or fourth wedding. 

Laughs who survives last   

Rumors speak of the fact that of all couples this season, the connection between Hagar and Nir and one other couple has survived and continued off-screen. It is unclear if this is true, but what is certain is that if, out of the only three surviving seasons, it is precisely Hagar and Nir and Shiri Veliran, the message is clear and clear: Leave you marital and infatuation. True, strong, stable and future love - not with excitement and flirtation, but with blood, sweat and tears. 

Enough at first wine, flower, nothing more - because it can be burdensome. But the Y-generation was, and we didn't know how to listen.   

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