Maayan Adam has already celebrated with dozens of friends and was the waitress at her own party • She decided she would not repeat this mistake again until an important change came

When I turned 30, I first decided to celebrate "properly." I invited the whole world and his sister, produced this monster myself and dedicated it to myself. At the end of the party, I swore I was alive, but alive, I'm not doing it again.

The whole event I was running around the tables, I asked "is everything okay?" And I moved on as the last waitress. I had no significant connection with my guests, and some I only saw in the pictures.

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When someone had already demanded "Come sit with us," I sat down for a second and my foot started to shake. There are people at the entrance, I have to go to them - a minimum of respect. I had a minute with whoever came, because they came after.

The whole event I was dealing with glitches, blasting crates and looking for chairs. Answering the phone because people couldn't find the place, taking out more glasses, cleaning up the fallen food trays and blocking out parking.

It was clear to me that my friends didn't really enjoy either, as it was not a cohesive event, but bunches of strangers. They did not know each other, did not feel comfortable and were not released. Testify the wilderness in the dance floor.

There were beautiful moments, but very few. After everyone went, I felt like crying. That is, there are no more clubs and no more parties.

and so it was.

Every year since, the companies have asked if we will celebrate and I replied "no thanks".

So this year they decided to pick up the glove, if only you gave it "Okay" - both on the production. I don't have to do anything - just a list. Definitely an enticing proposition. So I prepared. 50 people, as the government approved.

It didn't take a minute and Moore rang - asked if I had learned nothing from last time. She explained that I did not enjoy it that way, it was worth it, and I answered - it is the least I can. I explained to her all the constraints, that I must order that if I invite that, that I do not want to offend people. With endless patience, she went on with her "This is your party life, the less it gets - the more pleasant you will be."

I was convinced. But Gad, how much I tormented. Every name I downloaded - it hurt me. Every day I called her and regretted it. "Brass, just one more place!" I begged. But Moore didn't give up.

I enjoyed yesterday like I didn't enjoy life. Not just because everything was accurate, beautiful, insanely happy and delicious, not just because they cared about me for all the little details, not only because it was just a fun evening with friends - real fun, intimate and pleasant, but because I learned an important lesson: liberating and trusting others . Because when you do, it always comes out better than you do for yourself.

Thanks Moore,

You made me a birthday that I am happy to remember.