Amir Zahavi has so far refrained from discussing his relationship with Danit Livnat during the program and especially after, but after an interview she gave at the weekend decided to break the silence

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Amir Zehabi is tired of being silent. Having so far avoided taking part in events related to "at first sight wedding" and preferring to disappear almost entirely from the radar, Zehabi now seeks to make his voice heard as well. Remember, Zahavi matches Danish Birch in the starting oil pairings, it was clear it would not be simple. 

Subsequent delivery: What happens between Danish and Amir?

The challenger who decided to reveal his sexual orientation

Not long after the episode aired, viewers discovered the reason for Zahavi's remoteness: the lack of physical appeal to the whale. From here, the pairing was like a roller coaster that crashed into the reality test at the end of the day. Zehabi preferred to stay away from any event related to the promotion of the season in which he took part and preferred to stay as far away as possible. 

A few weeks ago when the network began to circulate rumors about his sexual orientation, Zehabi first broke silence and posted a post referring to what was said about him. 

"So far, I have avoided responding to all the evil that is being spread to me on networks, opinion columns, and on the screens. Not because it didn't hurt me, and maybe because I was so sore. This time I feel like a red line has been crossed for me, with someone spreading voicemails and texts in which she claimed" "I'm gay (by the way the other claims in the clip are also fabricated). It's about libel and slander, out of sheer evil and despicable opportunism. I'm not looking to be any symbol of any fight right now - it's big on me. Just want to win the justice I deserve as a human being," he wrote .

Last weekend, Livnat interviewed Mako Weekend magazine in which she talked about their relationship, revealing, among other things, that Zahavi blocked her on social networks (the reason, it was revealed, was the fact that she shared a Facebook post with a link to an article denying his name), adding that she was not Choosing him as a real life partner. 

As expected, the interview re-enacted the issue of charged relationship between the two that also touched the bare nerves of quite a few viewers, and the network was once again filled with tweets and posts for and against the two. It was enough for Gold to decide that he had to make his voice again, and he uploaded a Facebook video last night showing his side. 

"This week was especially difficult for me. After a long period of emotional roller coaster, just when I thought it was finally over, I was surprised in the loop," the video opened. "For a long time I did not speak because I did not want to be dragged into petty and disrespectful discourse, but today I see that my silence is used against me to continue to discredit me and that is why I finally decided to speak," he said. 

"The first thing I want to say is that we and Danes made a lot of mistakes in our relationship, but I made the first and biggest mistake, which was a painful mistake. I'm talking about not revealing to Dan that I wasn't attracted to ten days after returning from honeymoon.

"I did it because I thought it was the only way to give a chance to our relationship. I was sorry about that, it was wrong on my part, I apologized to Danish many times and I think we have been through it a long time and we have been through it very strongly. What else I can say and important To say that has been an absolute honesty between us since then. She knew everything about everything and we went on until the end. I think that was the secret to our relationship. "

"We were good friends and that is why I decided I wanted to take our relationship even after the program. I really hoped that after the cameras would go on and we had our privacy the passion would come and move on. Unfortunately it did not happen and as soon as I realized it I sat down with Danish and talked about it. "I don't want to and it's not right to stay in touch without passion and in fact we broke up. In practice, we stayed in touch as friends until mid-March."

The talkback war

He concluded the post by addressing followers:  "I understand you probably have more questions. There is a lot to talk about. Feel free to ask your questions here in response and I will do the maximum as quickly and as openly as I can. Shabbat goodbye." The video has garnered more than 22,000 views and close to two thousand Instagram comments, clearly divided into two camps: those who supported Gold completely and those who came out against it and did not spare harsh criticism. Zahavi's family, including his mother and father, took part in the charged discourse that began to gain momentum and sometimes reacted harshly to the surfers, claiming that Danit and her friends consistently discredited Zahavi and made her a victim while the reality was far more complex. 

"Stylist, not to tell the truth, to disappear, to block. This is the kind of most embarrassing and humiliating behavior a girl can experience. Work for yourself," one surfer told him.

"Come on no one forced him to stay !!! He chose to dirty and stay and he introduced all the time to stay !!!! Stop justifying negative behavior he really didn't walk on eggs. He played dirty and double game !!! Take responsibility !!! Be real with his feelings he would leave and not be fooled. And then he turned her into a mutant, "she responded with another surging fury. 

"You are amazing and you have nothing to apologize for, on the contrary, just take pride in the respect you gave her. It is okay that you are not allowed to go !!!!!!!!!! And best of all you did not do what she did that humiliated you in her article, you respected her and also you wanted to finish and she Read the letter and cried you didn't want to whiten her face in front of everyone and out of discomfort you said you were ready to go on and then off the cameras you were done. Aspire you to be proud of who you are !!!!!! " 

"I really understand that you both have had a difficult experience. Everybody's sedentary and everyone is complex, and even seeing that complexity is sometimes shown on television in an exaggerated way. But, both you and her are currently misbehaving. We (the audience) are not the address and all their side Her side is only detrimental to both of you (especially from the mental point of view). The best and most healing thing is to solve things face to face and if it is difficult at the moment, then letting time pass and then ... going out on one another's accusations does just as bad, "another surfer concluded.