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Mother in a confession that provokes a storm on the Internet: "My children are shit"
A mother of three from Melbourne is tired of hiding her sincere opinions about her children and she revealed them in a particularly revealing post about raising children.
She asks that you not judge her or other parents who feel this way and hopes to persuade others to speak freely about the difficulty of being a parent
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Laura Maza and her children (itslauramazza)
A mother will never say anything bad about her children unless she is human.
And there's no more human than Laura than that, the mother of 3 from Melbourne, who revealed in an extraordinary post how much she does not tolerate her children sometimes, and the fact that the only thing harder to be a parent is to pretend it is not difficult.
Her post may shock you at first, but if you get to the end - there's a good chance your mind will change.
Laura, 33, used to share her experiences on Instagram as a mother of three, Luca (6), Sofia (4) and James (2).
In a heartbreaking post she decided to say her sincere opinion about her children in hopes of convincing parents not to be afraid to reveal similar feelings.
In the post she admits that she does not always love her children, that she does not always have the strength to make them dinner and that the thought of reading her children a bedtime story makes her want to dislocate her eyes.
According to her, these thoughts do not make her a bad mother, but on the contrary - their exposure helps her cope better with the difficulties of raising children.
Alongside a picture of her children, she wrote: "I just want you to know that if you are my friends, you can say 'my kids were shit today' without judging you. You should feel free to be able to say 'I want to run away today' without fear of consequences."
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This is what she wrote
I just want you to know that if you are my friend, you can say "my kids were assholes today" without one look of judgment from me.
You should feel free to be able to say "I want to run away today."
Without any pearl clutching.
I know I complain a lot about parenting, and that is because raising children the hardest most physically and emotionally impossible thing I've ever done.
Every day is a new uncharted water.
I broke up fights today, got frustrated today, raised my voice today, cried, consoled crying, felt guilty, felt happy, felt loved, gave love.
All in less than 24 hours.
It's hard.
It's hard for all of us.
We wonder if we are fucking it up all the time.
So why not just be honest about it?
Why not have the freedom to say "I just can not be fucked with dinner tonight" and the thought of reading with my kids makes me want to gouge my eyes out.
I want you to know that with me, you can say that and I'll never think you do not love your kids or you're unappreciative.
Screw all the perfectionist attitudes, and the "oh my children are blessings 24/7" grateful optimism.
It does not mean we do not love our children, it does not mean we are not grateful - but we are allowed to vent.
Because you know what's even harder than raising children?
Pretending it's not hard.
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She explained: "I know I complain a lot about parenting and that's because raising children is the hardest, physically and emotionally impossible thing I've ever done. Every day is a new immersion in unfamiliar water. I stopped fighting today, I experienced frustration today, I raised my voice today, I cried, I calmed down, I felt guilty, I felt happy, I felt happy, I felt loved, I gave love. Everything in less than 24 hours. It's hard. It's hard for all of us. We wonder if we fail at it all the time, so why not just be honest about it? "
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Although her words are difficult to digest, many parents will surely feel empathy - even if they find it difficult to admit it.
Laura wonders: "Why don't I have the freedom to say 'I just can' t make dinner today 'and the thought of reading my kids a bedtime book makes me want to roll my eyes at myself. I want you to know that with me you can say that, and I'll never think you Do not love your children or you do not appreciate your situation. Let all the perfectionist attitudes and all this gratitude that "Oh my children are a blessing, 24/7" go to hell. It does not mean we do not love our children, it does not mean we are not grateful - But we are allowed to unload. "
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Her post garnered thousands of responses from mothers who felt empathy and praised her for her sincerity.
One wrote: "That's exactly what I think. Nice to know I'm not alone in this."
Another wrote: "The best post I've seen."
Third responded: "I feel 100% like that. I have two teenage girls and most of the time I try to convince myself that alcohol is a vitamin!".
Another experienced mother wrote: "This is true parenting. No one but mom really knows how hard it is. I feel like we lose our identity sometimes."
Another mother concluded: "I love what you wrote. It's important to be honest about it. I wish others knew how to embrace it."
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