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Right or petty? Babysitter reported to police for neglect because the mother was late returning home - Walla! health

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A babysitter sparked a heated online debate over her decision to report neglect to police, after the mother was 6 hours late. Although it may seem particularly petty, her story may change your mind


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Babysitter reported to police neglect that the mother was late returning home

A babysitter sparked a heated debate online because of her decision to report child neglect to the police, after the mother who cared for her children was 6 hours late for her.

Though it may seem petty, her story may change your mind

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Babysitting is a job for everything and as in any job you expect to receive fair treatment from your employer, including working only agreed hours and receiving payment on time. However, an American babysitter claims that there is one family that is causing her a lot of trouble, until on Saturday one of the things escalated to the point of an explosion. The babysitter revealed the drastic step she had taken after the mother of the children she cared for returned home several hours after the agreed time - and ruined her plans for the rest of the evening. She said that after several hours of trying to contact the mother without success, she decided to call the police and report the neglect. While her act may seem excessive to you, her full story may still change your mind.



In a post published by the anonymous babysitter on the Am I The A ** hole Bardit forum, the 28-year-old said she does babysitting on the weekends to earn some more money - and that there is one mother she has long wanted to stop working for, but her children are too cute and that is "money easy". She said that the mother never returns home at the agreed time and that she is always forced to look after the children until late, which destroys all her plans to sit down. She explained: "At first she used to not give me any time back at all, but at some point I started asking because it did not allow me to do anything on the weekends. I would do babysitting so she could go to brunch, but she was absent from 11am to 7am In the evening. That's how it would have gone for me all day. " She added: "Later she started giving me times but never met them. She would not even call to update me on what was happening to her. She just would not come back."



The babysitter claims the climax happened on Saturday, when she agreed to look after the children from 6pm to 9pm and planned to go out with friends in the evening. However, when 21:00 arrived, the mother did not return or answer any calls or text messages from her. She wrote: "She promised to come back in time. Of course, the time has come 21:00 and she is not home. I call her, no answer. Texting, no response. Another hour passes. Nothing. Still calling and texting. At midnight my plans have arrived. At this point my plans Destroyed long ago and I'm nervous and exhausted. I call her and leave her a voice message saying that if she does not come home in the next hour, I see it as if you have abandoned the children and call the police. I also text her. I try to call her 30 minutes later and it goes to voicemail In the second ring.I send her a message again and I see that the message was read but there is no answer.If she would come back to me and say 'hey, I stay out until hour X', I would stay.I do not know anyone from her family nor the father of the children, so I can not call them. "

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"She promised to be back on time. Of course, it was 9pm and she was not home" (Photo: ShutterStock, Africa Studio)

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She added: "I gave her another 15 minutes of grace time and tried to call again. Finally I called the police (not the emergency line). They came and showed them our consent in a text from the beginning of the week confirming she would be home by 9pm. They tried to contact her, "She did not answer. They released me and took the children to the police station. I went home and went to sleep."



The babysitter says she woke up at three in the morning from a frightened phone call from the mother who asked where she and her children were.

"I tell her I have fulfilled my threat and will check with the police station. She cursed at me, hung up and went back to sleep," she added, "The next day she sends me a long message saying the police called her children's father and an investigation was opened against her. She called me by any name under the sun "But I did not think I was wrong until I spoke to a friend who has children. She said I should just wait until she came back and then refuse to babysit her again. She asked if the potential for her to lose her children was worth my pettiness."

This is her full post:

So what do you think of what she did?

  • A just act

  • A petty act

The babysitter asked Reddit users to tell her if they thought she had made a mistake - and more than 3,700 people responded to share their thoughts. One person wrote: "You were fine. One thing I learned from 'True Crime' series is that the 24 hour wait to file a report on a missing person is a myth. She was not where and when she said she would be and did not respond to any of your ways of contacting her. She was in fact absent at that stage. "Another agreed:" The investigation is also probably related to the fact that she ignored a number of calls and text messages she received. She made herself the only contact person in an emergency - and she was unattainable. You had no other way. "Another user wrote:" She was six late! Six hours without responding. It's a 'you-die-in-the-ditch' situation. "



Another respondent wrote: "She has not been in touch for more than six hours. What if something happened to her children? Something that needs to be referred to the emergency room? Her actions have repeatedly shown how little treatment she devotes to caring for children and how little respect she has for you. "Be available, especially after the agreed shift time for your services has passed. I bet she didn't even offer to pay for the impromptu overtime you had to do."

Another concluded: "Let's be honest. She did not behave in a petty manner. She reported a bad mother! This was not the first time this woman did it and she will continue to do it for someone who will take care of her children because she is selfish and does not care about anyone but herself. "Evil has consequences. Maybe she will learn from it, but I doubt it."

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