A psychologist reveals a "safe" way to know if someone is cheating on you
A psychologist claims that all traitors have a clear sign of their actions and that as long as you are loyal - you will be able to identify if your partner is not.
His method has received a lot of criticism, while others argue that critics just do not want to get caught
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27/12/2021
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The psychological secret to knowing if someone is cheating on you (@thedanielacon / Instagram)
Distrust is one of the major problems in relationships. If we had a way of knowing for sure whether our spouse was as loyal to us as he promised - we would have saved ourselves a lot of heartbreak. Psychologist Daniel Akon claims that there is a clear sign that the partner is cheating - but not everyone agrees with him.
Since it is almost impossible to know without proof whether our spouse's suspicions are justified or stem from insecurity or experiences from previous relationships, the psychologist believes that suspicious behavior in the spouse is certainly a good reason to wave a red flag. Obviously, his advice should not be taken as a scientific fact and it does not mean that it is suitable for everyone, but you are definitely welcome to doubt and make further inquiries if your spouse starts behaving in this way.
In a video he posted on Instagram, Daniel explained that his trick only works if you have not yet violated your spouse's trust in you.
That is, if you yourself made him doubt your credibility - it will not work.
He says: "Clarification: It only works if you have not violated his trust, otherwise, he may have justification for how he feels about you."
So what is the method?
According to Daniel, in most cases when your spouse starts suspecting you and starts asking too many questions - it is his loyalty that you should doubt.
He explains: "If you go out with someone and he starts accusing you of cheating or he's afraid you're talking to other people without any proof, it usually means he's cheating on you and talking to other people. He's just afraid you're doing the same thing. "Their inner world is on other people. It's a kind of advanced level thinking game."
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In conclusion, if the spouse has a reason to worry (even if you did not really do something) then of course you can not blame him - but if you were loyal, you did not give him any reason to suspect and he still suspects and asks strange questions - probably yours has a real reason To suspect him.
While many agreed with him and even some admitted that they had betrayed in the past and behaved exactly like that, others denied and argued that each case should be judged on its own merits.
One wrote: "I have trust issues with people, not because I'm committing adultery, but because I'm afraid of getting hurt after I lowered my walls of defense. I'm definitely not proud of that. I wish I was not so worried."
Another added: "This is really not true. What if someone has abandonment anxiety?".
Another reinforced it: "It's inaccurate. People who have trust issues or experienced trauma from a previous relationship tend to doubt everyone - and that doesn't really mean they do the same thing."
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