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The way you look at your child shapes his personality and is burned into his consciousness. So what should you broadcast in your gaze?


Seeing with our own eyes: This is how your gaze affects the child

The way you look at your child shapes his personality and is burned into his consciousness.

So what should you broadcast in your gaze?

Daniel Sarantsky, in collaboration with JAMA

14/04/2022

Thursday, 14 April 2022, 06:22

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"Look me in the eye when I talk to you", "One look from me and he will understand" - the common way of education in the past was quite autocratic.

The parents would use such commanding sentences and express the anger through the eyes and the children would respond immediately, out of fear.

What is it about the eyes that conveys such messages?



Dana Hovesh

, a certified parent counselor at the Adler Institute and the Ministry of Education, explains that our eyes speak.

Through them you can understand whether you are happy, angry, angry, scared, sad and even ashamed.

Think about how much power and strength there is in your gaze.

As mothers, your gazes greatly affect your children.

The child sees your expression, interprets the intention through the gaze, strong emotions arise in him, for better or for worse, and he experiences you intensely.

This is how a childhood memory that shapes his personality is preserved for him.

In fact, the collection of experiences and conclusions that our children will gather in their early years will create in them a sieve through which they will see the world.



It is true that communication between you is not limited to looks, but it starts with them, and since they say so much even without words - you should pay attention to them and adopt looks that will be good with your children.



Which looks are adversely affecting?



If you look at your child with a narrow eye, examine what he is missing and criticize any mistake, he may experience the world with pessimism and choose to see in him only what is not.



What looks will intensify it?



If you look at the child with good eyes, contain and enlighten him with the "yes", the good, the half full glass, he will most likely become an optimistic person who believes that good things will happen to him.



So, think through which eyes would you like to see your child?

What would you like to broadcast to him?

And also - what eyes would you like him to remember?

Try to think about your gaze and adopt "good eyes" when you look at your child, so that he too will adapt his gaze and learn to look at the world well.

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If you look at your child with a narrow eye, examine what he is missing and criticize every mistake, he may experience the world with pessimism (Photo: ShutterStock)

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