During the clinic meeting, as we saw last night (Saturday) in "Wedding at First Sight", Rinat shares with all of us that if she had met Daniel in real life outside, she would have gotten up and left already after the first date.
You could judge her and say she's losing, missing out, being too picky, maybe even arrogant or living in La La Land.
She seems to have said all these things to herself dozens of times before you, which is exactly why she came to the wedding at first sight.
In her current state her mind is probably screaming "Let's fly out of here now," but her mind realizes that if she flies out of here she misses.
Slowly one can see that Rinat is discovering Daniel's abilities and his patience.
She is impressed by it and realizes that they have a lot in common and that it is worth exploring everything in depth, so she stays.
Remained meanwhile despite the difficulty,
It is true that we always prefer that the attraction be created in the first moment on the basis of external appearance, but it is a mistake to think that this is the only basis for its formation.
There is also an attraction that builds over time.
Know that man the girl did not want to date and offered to be her friend?
exactly like that.
Once we know someone, we can change our attitude towards him.
Hence, that attraction can also be formed on the basis of character and traits.
But in order for us to know the character of the potential mate, we need time and patience.
You can't really meet someone after one or two dates, not even after two weeks.
It takes time.
That is why I always recommend giving a chance, even if you do not immediately feel attracted.
It is important to try to really get to know the person you are dating, look for the good and the common and not get caught up in the negative (assuming of course that the negative is not a red line for you).
Between us?
It is not always possible to say, even after the fifth or sixth date.
It's better to say no after you've known and you're absolutely sure it's not, than to say no after one date and a superficial initial impression, and then wonder if you missed the love of your life because you did not give it a chance.
The author is the author of the Practical Guide to Creating Relationships: "From All My Educational Courts," and helps women create relationships. Follow on Facebook and Instagram
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