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Inconsistency at first glance: Why do experts insist on bringing opposites together? | Israel today

2022-05-29T12:07:54.284Z


The question is: Is a similar match better or is the saying "opposites last" more correct? • Experts should get off the tree, and understand that they are making a mistake • Opinion


The meeting between Limor and Liad last night (Saturday) in "Wedding at First Sight" was excellent.

They testified to each other that he liked the other, and there was no doubt that the chemistry between them was visible from all sides.

Seemingly, a great start.


The experts claimed that they were very similar, and that Limor was exactly what the target needed in his life: someone to lift him up, bring him life, take him out of his peace and quiet.

This sentence worried us.

It is impossible not to wonder for ourselves whether this is what the target is looking for in his life, and whether this is what he has been missing until now - someone with crazy energies for life who goes out to parties and events almost every evening.

Apparently, according to the experts, someone who prefers an intimate, quiet and relaxed pastime at home over parties and dances misses something in his life, and needs to pick it up, because he is probably down now.

Just like it was last season with Ben and Manor's matchmaking or another season with Eric and Dobby.

To the destination of Don and Limor Weinstein in "Wedding at First Sight", Photo: Liron Saar

If the destination prefers one thing, it is not clear why change it.

It would have been better to suit someone who also likes to sit at home and spend time on the terrace, and for her, such an intimate pastime is the best pastime.

Still, we did not see that Mano and Nitzan's pastimes on the porch were so bad.

Contrary to the approach of the experts, most theories for creating a relationship hold that a match should be based on the common and not on the different.

The character traits of the couple should be similar, except for one trait that may be different to create interest.

The difficult parting.

Ben and Manor, Photo: From "Wedding at First Sight"

The formula is pretty simple.

When choosing a partner, it is important to choose someone who is similar to you, especially in your important and dominant traits.

For example, if you like going out with friends to dance and hang out on an almost daily level, and this is what inspires you, makes you happy and fills you with energies, it is important that you find a pairing with a similar conduct.

If you are one who is sick of the kitchen and loves to cook or bake, it is important that you find a pairing that loves it at least as much as you do, or at least loves to eat everything you cook.

Since no two people in the world are the same, surely and surely when it comes to a relationship between a man and a woman, there will always be differences and there will be disagreements.

The very act of intimacy is a compromise, because sometimes we do what is good for our spouse and less what we have chosen for ourselves (and sometimes he will do the same for us).

Therefore, it is important to know and remember that differences between two people and disagreements are an integral part of relationships.

Thus, it is advisable to look for a partner whose dominant traits will be similar to our dominant traits, thus reducing the difference and potential for disagreement.

Such a choice will increase the chances of each of us being in a relationship that will flourish and prosper over time.

The author is the author of the practical guide to creating relationships: "From all my educational cycles", and helps women create relationships.

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Source: israelhayom

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