The fifth season of "Wedding at First Sight" is in full swing, and we see the couples stressed, many, scared of the process, get on their knees, communicate flawed, reconcile and then many again.
But it all seems like it does not concern one couple at all this season - Lior and Katya.
For these two, life is honey, and everything goes smoothly and well.
From the first moment their sons had chemistry and enthusiasm.
From the beginning they communicated well, understood each other, got along great, had fun together, liked the other side's family and loved it for themselves.
No conversation pressures them (not even Lior's question about whether she will stay with her last name after the wedding, or how important a rabbinical wedding is to her, nor the statement that he gave up his apartment in favor of cohabitation), both completely all in.
All in.
Katya and Lior, Photo: Liron Saar
Despite all the eyebrow levels and even comments from surfers that this is an untrue relationship, I believe it is the most normal there is.
Because we are so used to meeting people who are not completely willing or ready for a relationship, it turns out that no one makes an effort.
We see here an important rule, and it is that a man who wants - does!
And Lior really wants Katya, so he makes an effort and does.
It may pass him by at some point, but now he is doing at the height of his enthusiasm what every man knows how to do even without being taught - to woo.
The courtship is expressed in buying her flowers, waiting for her at home when she arrives to ask her how her day was, and getting up with her at five in the morning to make her coffee and pastries and sit with her for a few minutes before she leaves.
When we meet the right person, everything just flows.
No quarrels, no friction, no communication problems and no fears.
Some say it's simple because the soul knows it's the soul that suits it, and maybe it's true.
This does not mean that there will be no quarrels in the future, misunderstandings or short cuts in the media, everything will be.
But the frequency will be low, and it will also be possible to pass them relatively easily, because the base is strong and good.
So yes, it is possible and it exists.
Not only that, but everyone is looking for this love, like the one Katya and Lior have.
The problem is that when it comes, most of us do not really believe it has come, and look for where it is not good or how to spoil it.
In the case of Katya and Lior, we see that there is suitability, attraction, desire and readiness between them.
Therefore they manage to enjoy all this good and not ruin, hopefully they will continue like this.
The author is the author of the practical guide to creating relationships: "From all my educational cycles", and helps women create relationships. For follow-up: on Facebook and Instagram
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