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A wedding at first sight: why the hell did not the destination miracle for his soul? | Israel today

2022-06-26T11:14:07.398Z


Our hearts go out to a target who had to listen to May and Limor's conversation • The critical question asked here is why he stayed • What can we learn from this about ourselves, and why do we not leave even when it is clear that there is no chance that the relationship will rise again?


Even if you are not a fan of Liad, it was impossible to remain indifferent to one of the most miserable scenes ever seen on the screen "Wedding at First Sight".

After 40 minutes he waits for Limor outside the bathroom, and hears all her allegations against him, including the saying she suffers because of him, she leaves accompanied by May, passing by as if he were nothing and nothing, and moving on.

Liad, who already suffers from low self-confidence, has a hard time making a decisive decision and decides to stay.

He also explains to the camera that if he cuts - it's over and there's no going back.

He just does not understand that with the humiliating and degrading treatment he receives from Limor, it is better for him to finish it, and beautiful one hour earlier.

Most of the program does not survive.

Liad and Limor, Photo: Keshet 12

Maybe he sees the other couples and tells himself that they are all in the same boat.

That everyone has difficulties, and here they still manage to enjoy each other.

He just does not take into account that what he sees is mostly a show, that most of the couples in the show do not survive.

It is clear to all of us that between one scene and the other the production sat tight on him and pumped him in the head that there was a reason why they matched him and Limor.

He must have been told that there are many things in common that connect them, but the truth is that when communication is so bad between two people, nothing can be built.

It can be said that Liad represents quite a few people who do not see reality as it is when they are in a relationship.

They ignore warning points, circle corners and beautify reality.

It is not just said that love is blind.

Although Liad is not in love and even far from it, the thought that there is still a chance for this relationship leaves him in the plan.

This time she can not jump.

Limor and Liad,

Even when we are in a relationship that fails, we hold on to potential.

We mostly think what could be, and do not see how much it goes wrong.

We eliminate what fails and cling to what can succeed.

This is also true of a new relationship - where we see the potential on paper only and find it difficult to accept that what is on paper does not always exist in reality.

This is also true of a long relationship, where we cling to how much we have had good in the past and ignore all the many signs that show us that the good has already passed.

It is important to mention that the stated goal of the program is to address the FOMO problem and the ease with which we disqualify people who can fit us.

In the case of Liad and Limor, we see the other side of the barricade, and that is to keep participants in the program even though it is clear that there is no chance here of a successful relationship.

The author is the author of the practical guide to creating relationships: "From all my educational educators" and helps women create relationships.

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Source: israelhayom

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