Ma'in Dori did not find love in the reality show "Wedding at First Sight", where she married a man whom she only met for the first time while standing under a canopy, but it seems that she definitely came out of it strengthened with important insights for life.
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In a controlled text attached to the reels she uploaded, in which she proudly presented her body in a pink top and tight tights, she wrote about the comments regarding her body weight.
According to her, the comments always made her feel uncomfortable, even though their intentions were good.
She shared her acceptance of herself as she is, and her decision to wear a swimsuit after years of avoidance.
Finally, she offered surfers her approach to dealing with negative feedback regarding the appearance, stating that it is not so bad if you think about it deeply.
"Let's talk for a second about the word 'fat'," Dori wrote at the beginning of her speech.
"How shrunken she is. And since she is shrunken, the need always arises, also from my direction, to cancel her. 'Fat? You? You're not fat'. It's even more shrunken," she paused.
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"Unintentionally, this cancellation gives such a strong effect to the first contraction," she shared the conclusion she reached.
"Before the broadcasts, I admit that I was afraid. I was afraid of how I would feel when I would read and hear comments in which they would say I was fat. Although I am a proud chauvinist (a family term adopted by my generation that means a woman who loves to eat and even celebrates this love), and still, when it will be so exposed and so Big, how will it feel?", she shared the questions that arose in her.
"I dedicate this post to you and to you. Everyone who wrote to me about identification, about insecurity, about the change in perception towards yourself. About the courage to finally wear a bathing suit, about the ability to smile at a sudden sight. Today I can share with you that I have freed myself from this contraction. Write About me being fat, so what? Fat in relation to what and to whom? Fat is a relative description, like tall, like brown, like many other descriptions that can be said. And the truth is, even if in someone's eyes I am fat, what's so terrible about that anyway?", a rhetorical question .
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