Lali Espósito confessed that she always carries a sex toy in her purse: "It's a woman's best friend," she said in an interview for Vogue Spain and opened her Louis Vuitton bag to show a
Satisfyer Pro
, the latest sex toy that revolutionized the industry. .
In the "Emily in Paris" series, the protagonist, faced with Wi-Fi problems with her boyfriend, spontaneously pulls out a vibrator from a drawer.
It is that every day
there is more talk about the clitoral sucker
.
It is discussed in the news, on the networks, among friends and even at family meals.
According to a Clarín
survey
, the demand for clitoral suckers in sex shops has increased exponentially between 20% and 80% since the pandemic and has become the most sought after sex toy.
Online sales also increased by 20 percent compared to 2021, according to data from Mercado Libre.
These products appeared on the Argentine market in 2018, but their boom began in April 2020 with the start of the pandemic.
"Every day between 3 and 8 are sold," illustrates Christian Milosevic, owner of the sex shop and wholesale distributor Rey adulto (@sexshopelreyadultos), in Malabia and Corrientes.
In the Lanús branch of the Argentine sexshop they indicate that they sell 2 or 3 per day.
“Last year sales tripled.
Every 3 months a large purchase of the more than 60 products of the brand is made.
Stimulators of this type (Satisfyer) are
the first to run out
.
Every day, they take an average of 6 to 8 per store, the same on the web and the rest in wholesalers”, adds Mariana Rincón (@buttman_sexshop), manager of the Buttman sexshop store in Belgrano.
Different models of clitoris suckers.
Photo: Andres D'Elia
In a dialogue with
Clarín
, Moria Casán emphasizes: “I have always been sexually self-sufficient.
I am totally in favor of the clitoral sucker.
The clitoris is our penis and with the amount of nerves it has, you have to try to make it erect and there you have what helps you achieve it.
Not everyone practices cunnilingus and does it satisfactorily.
What happens is that you have to assume masturbation and from there incorporate sex toys”.
Moria Casán: "I am totally in favor of the clitoral sucker."
The reason for success?
Distance relationships, need to recognize orgasms, network advertising.
The sources consulted also mention the
efficiency and speed of the sucker
to achieve clitoral orgasm.
“Among its advantages, we find that it directly stimulates the external part of the clitoris, the pleasure center for people with a vulva.
Furthermore, it is not a phallic-shaped penetration product.
There are
many people over 60
who choose it,” says Francesca Gnecchi (@erotique.pink), director of the Erotique Pink boutique in Palermo.
Francesca Gnecchi, director of the Erotique Pink boutique, in Palermo.
Photo Lucia Merle
There are many models, but for Milosevic the most recognized are: Satisfyer Number One (11 vibration modes), Satisfyer Pro2 (11 intensity levels, waterproof, USB charging), Satisfyer Pro5 Next generation.
And Gnecchi notes: “The Satisfyer brand clitoral sucker became popular, but
there are many brands
that make suckers.
For example, duo womanizer and baci”.
“The demand for this product was
closely related to the restrictions on movement
.
But the publication of personal experiences on social networks and the recommendations of Influencers managed to return to the sales levels that we had in full closure due to Covid ”,
Leandro Fernández (@sexshopargentino), president of the Argentine Sexshop, tells
Clarín
. .
Various models of the fashionable sex toy.
Photo: Lucia Merle
And the prices?
In general, the satisfyers start at $13,500 and the highest value can cost $50,000 or even more.
"The Pro2 that Lali uses costs $24,900," Gnecchi details.
And the ages?
"80% of them range from 23 to 45 years of age and the other 20% are over 45 years of age and older," says Milosevic.
What is Satisfyer?
Florencia Salort, gynecologist and teacher at the Italian Hospital of Buenos Aires (@flordegineco), defines it as "an ally for pleasure, something animated that one gives life to spice up the sexual life as a couple or self-satisfaction."
The sources consulted point out that it is a wrong description to call it a sucker because, in reality, it
simulates a suction
from a membrane that vibrates at the base of a nozzle and small vacuums and air pulses are produced.
"Commercially, it is easier to call it a sucker than to talk about air pressure waves," Rincón specifies.
And Esther Díaz, writer and philosopher, clarifies: "The sexual device of the moment responds to the age of technoscience, it is a sexual pet that emerged from a retail technology that causes wholesale orgasms and generates an enrichment of our subjectivities thanks to its ultrasonic generator of orgasms".
The clitoris is an organ that receives many nerve endings and blood vessels, which gives it great sensitivity.
"The sucker acts like a small vacuum pump around the organ, increasing the delivery of blood to the mucosa," describes Walter Ghedin, a psychiatrist and sexologist.
How does it work?
Specialists agree that its handling is simple and intuitive.
It is activated with the push of a button and you have the option of giving it more or less intensity, with 11 different levels of stimulation.
It does not take batteries, but is recharged with a USB cable that can be connected to a normal socket.
"It is not necessary to exert any type of penetration since, through shock waves and air, it exerts pressure on the clitoral area, increasing the blood rhythm and guaranteeing orgasm in a few minutes," explains Milosevic.
And Fernández adheres: “The head, which can be disassembled to clean it, should be brought closer to the vulva.
Then, you have to increase the vibration level every 20 or 40 seconds until you reach the maximum level or orgasm, whichever happens first”.
One of the models of clitoris suckers.
Photo: Andres D'Elia
For her part, Mariana Kersz, psychologist and sexologist (@lic.marianakersz), suggests that the mind be in erotic mode, connected with sexual and pleasurable stimuli, that the body be relaxed and predisposed for action, and that there be no demands.
She also advises: "Place it with a little bit of gel with hyaluronic acid on the nozzle of the suction cup and place it gently directly on the clitoris."
“There is a catch: the greater the stimulation, the greater the sensitivity.
At a certain point, the sensitivity is so high that any contact with the clitoris is annoying and breaks the spiral of pleasure that leads to that explosion of oxytocin, adrenaline and dopamine”, warns Fernández.
How does it enrich sexual life?
“It helps women to
empower their pleasure
, their orgasms and to dilate their clitoris, thereby guaranteeing that their level of arousal is higher.
In most cases it is used individually, but the use as a couple generates an attractive plus in the intimate relationship.
Many women say it's fun to use during intercourse,” says Milosevic.
María de los Ángeles Taborda is an obstetrician gynecologist and sexologist (@dra.maria.taborda).
She recommends using the sucker as a condiment to ignite the flame of passion because it brings the "spark" of the new, of novelty.
“It has a playful aspect that offers self-knowledge to record different levels of pleasure.
But I don't recommend starting with a Satisfyer if you've never owned a sex toy.
The ideal is to go from less to more
”, She justifies.
The possibility of using a toy as personal as the satisfyer allows people to enjoy their sexuality regardless of age.
Ghedin tells
Clarín
that his patients consult him a lot about the use and operation of the sucker.
“In general, the indications range from improving sexual life to use when there are problems with orgasm.
In the latter case, it can be a complement to sexological therapy, in addition to addressing emotional causes, bonding factors, self-knowledge and pelvic floor exercises ”, she expands.
Personal experience
Paola Kullock is director of PK Escuela de Sexo.
She considers that the decision of which toys to use and when to use them is personal and prefers to
avoid buying the ones that are in style
.
Paola Kulliok told Clarín her experience with Satisfyer, the fashionable sex toy.
But she shares her experience with
Clarín
: “One day they gave me a flower-shaped clitoral sucker.
To me, who masturbates frequently and usually uses vibrators.
And I said well, now yes, to try it in my own flesh.
At first, I didn't find the joke until one day it seems that I adjusted it better and felt a different sensation from vibrators.
Later, I tried it on the nipples and it felt very interesting.
I had a super fast orgasm.”
Does it have any risk or contradiction?
At the gynecological level, it does not present any type of contraindication or risk when using it unless, according to Taborda, the area presents a herpetic lesion or is injured.
“After use, it should always be sanitized with water and neutral soap.
"It is important to clean it correctly since passing it near the urethra can generate
a urinary infection
. Once dry, the most correct thing would be to store it in a case that is exclusively for its use," Taborda details.
Satysfier, the sex toy everyone is talking about by Lali Esposito.
Photo: Lucia Merle
Likewise, Salort adds that "in some people it can cause allergies or irritation, generate a lack of control that scares them or produces the sensation of having the clitoris or areas of the vulva anesthetized."
For this reason, Ghedin also warns: "It is not recommended when there are lesions in the clitoral mucosa, infections or painful clitoris.
Nor does it help to think that the entire erotic encounter is reduced to genital pleasure, when in reality it is everything: body and mind.
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