There are human quirks your cat hates.
But there are also some that she loves you for.
Fortunately, this even includes the messiness.
Living with pets, especially cats, isn't always easy.
Body language and ways of life are too different.
But it's not impossible, especially if you like each other.
To win your cat's affection even more, certain qualities have proven their worth.
1. Your cat loves you for fairness
Fairness?
Sounds a bit strange, but it's true.
Cats are sensitive and can be resentful.
That's why it's particularly important for their humans never to let their own whims and moods out on the cat.
Normally, she rarely has anything to do with it and does not understand the connection between mood and behavior.
For example, all she gets is: "Get lost, I'm not in the mood for you!"
2. Cats need consistency
Raising cats can be a challenge.
But it is made possible by positive confirmation and – almost more importantly – consistency.
It doesn't even have to be about great tricks.
Consistent behavior shows the house tigers what they are allowed to do and what not.
Whether it's about sleeping in bed or jumping on tables.
However, there are some things you should definitely avoid when training a cat, such as grabbing your neck.
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3. Fantasy - a hit with house cats
If you try something new more often, you can collect bonus points with your cat.
Whether it's a homemade toy made from carpet scraps or toilet rolls, a new scratching post or an enticing cardboard cave: there are numerous ways to arouse your kitty's curiosity.
There are no limits to your own imagination here.
Understanding Cat Language: 10 Signs Your Cat Loves You
Understanding Cat Language: 10 Signs Your Cat Loves You
4. Your cat loves patience and composure
A visit to the vet, e.g. for castration, is imminent and your nerves are already gone?
Be sure that your cat or tomcat notices this and that all the tension is transferred to the animal.
The calmer and more relaxed your human is in dealing with special situations, the more relaxed the cat will be.
What the cat doesn't like at all
There are some things that you probably do on a regular basis that your cat could certainly do without.
The use of certain scents is one of them, for example.
Just like harassing or ignoring posture.
5. Activity: great for both cat and human
The more you deal with your velvet paw, the closer the bond becomes.
This can be clicker training, for example, or simply extensive cuddling hours.
As the owner, you should always keep an eye on the body language of your four-legged friend.
It is only positive for both sides if both sides feel like being busy or cuddling.
On the other hand, if you travel a lot, you should provide your house cat with a companion (preferably a second cat) so that it does not suffer from loneliness.
6. Set routines are a blessing for cats
Whether fixed feeding times, play or cuddling rituals - cats love it when everyday life is routine.
Changes are difficult for them to understand, even a new piece of furniture can throw particularly sensitive representatives off the hook.
Tip: For all "can openers" who have to get up early during the week and want to sleep in at the weekend, purchasing a programmable feeder could be worthwhile.
7. Gentleness in dealing
Cats have many whiskers on their heads and legs, which they use to perceive their surroundings.
They are incredibly sensitive and stroking them too roughly or vigorously can make them uncomfortable.
If you scratch gently and carefully, you can really score with the velvet paws.
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Calm, gentle, deliberate - cats love it when someone caresses and pampers them.
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8. Cheers to messiness
Many people will probably find it a little easier that their own messiness meets with sympathy from cats.
For example, a blanket or jacket thrown on the chair can quickly become the new den.
The crumpled sweater that is no longer so fresh makes a good place to sleep and the bits of thread or paper that fell off while crafting are top-class toys.
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