As of: March 14, 2024, 5:32 p.m
By: Anita Lienerth
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A newlywed bride and groom show their wedding rings after the wedding ceremony in the town hall.
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A new adult-only trend is emerging at weddings: more and more weddings are taking place without children.
But not every guest is enthusiastic about it.
This trend has both advantages and disadvantages.
A wedding is undoubtedly one of the most important moments in a couple's life, celebrated by friends and family.
But in recent years a new wedding trend has emerged: adults-only marriage.
This decision to remove children from the guest list has sparked a debate that is also heated on social media.
New trend: wedding without children?
It is clear on social media that more and more weddings are taking place without children at the request of the bride and groom.
Numerous videos centered around this exact wedding trend have garnered millions of views and a variety of reactions.
Some users support the idea that children should be excluded from weddings, while others criticize this decision.
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Adults-only wedding: This speaks for it
Of course there are good reasons for a wedding without children.
Proponents argue that a childless wedding allows for an uninterrupted celebration where the bride and groom and their guests can enjoy themselves without distractions.
It is emphasized that children can often distract attention from the actual celebration, limiting parents' ability to enjoy their time.
It is also noted that a wedding is not a child-friendly place as children can quickly become bored or overwhelmed.
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In addition, no child care needs to be organized and the buffet or catering can be arranged according to the wishes of the bride and groom without having to take child-friendly dishes into account.
The parents can celebrate more exuberantly, which can have a positive effect on the mood at the wedding.
Disadvantages of a wedding without children
Of course, in addition to the advantages, there are also numerous disadvantages that a childless wedding can bring with it.
Some guests, especially parents, are outraged by the exclusion policy and feel hurt or insulted.
Discussions about whether children should be welcome at weddings can cause tension between the bride and groom and their guests.
In addition, children often contribute to emotional moments at weddings, for example as flower children or sweet interludes for the couple.
A wedding is seen as a family celebration anyway.
Excluding children is not understandable for everyone.
Many couples also have problems organizing a babysitter for the wedding.
Not everyone can rely on grandparents for help, or the children may be too small to hand over to a babysitter.
This can result in invited couples with children ultimately not showing up at the wedding.
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A question of respect and understanding
In any case, it is important that both the bride and groom and the guests respect and understand each other's wishes.
A wedding should be a happy event where everyone feels good.
Therefore, open communication and mutual understanding is crucial to avoid conflicts and make the day pleasant for everyone involved.
Compromises ensure satisfaction on all sides
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not children are welcome at a wedding is a personal choice of the bride and groom.
There are pros and cons for both sides, and it is important to find a compromise that is acceptable to everyone.
Clear communication and consideration of the needs and feelings of everyone involved are crucial to ensuring a harmonious celebration.
However, the advantages and disadvantages should definitely be taken into account when planning the perfect wedding.