Bring to parents: So you'll recognize that your guy can be in a relationship

Sometimes it's hard to put your finger on it, but between us, you can already know in the early stages of the acquaintance if the guy you met is Boyfrand Material, one you can bring home to your parents and have a stable relationship with

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Sometimes it's hard to put your finger on it from the start, and sometimes it's as obvious as the "socket and plug" sexual orientation, but when you are faced with an option for long-term relationships, it's worth knowing why. If you are tired of collecting wounded and repaired broken, you must be looking for candles for this person who knows how to live in relationships, because you have heard from friends that he does exist. How to find out the chaff from the catfish and the fish from the big sea the one fish that can be defined as "Boyfriend Material". That is the serious, mature guy and cook for this relationship that can be brought home to parents and trusted not to make jokes and to function in a stable relationship.

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So who is exactly the same guy who meets the definition of "Boyfrand Material" and how do you identify him before reaching the point of no return? We discovered that there were disturbing signs, and you could see who was standing in front of you (or sitting in front of the screen) at the initial exploration stage. More than that - a dating app like OkCupid can recognize them even before you start talking, thanks to a detailed profile that can tell you a thing or two about the guy.

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If he's photographed with you like that, he's probably in the business (Photo: Shatterstock)

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He is ready for a serious monogamous relationship
This may sound obvious, but it is not a matter of course for some men. How many times have you heard "I'm not built for connection" or "I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment". By the way, sometimes men (or women) think they're ready for it, but they aren't. The problem is that they discover it already in an advanced stage of contact, where they grab cold feet and leave the other side with a broken heart. A guy we call "Boyfrand Material" is already there. He does not play games, he does not make you feel that he is still testing you and unsure of your interest, you are not gone in the middle of a wussup call. Most importantly - you don't feel the need to lift the membership cabinet every time it messes up, simply because it happens more than once a week. On the bottom line, he wants to be with you, and he also makes sure to show you that.

He knows you for his friends and family
If you've been dating a guy for too long and you haven't met his friends - there's a problem here. Either he is ashamed of you, or he does not see anything serious about you, in both cases the conclusion is clear: he is not Boyfrand Material. True, the guy may have been burned in the past and is more cautious in this section, but at some point it's already inevitable to really know - if you didn't know his friends or other people who are part of his life, it means he doesn't consider you one. If the guy is Boyfrand Material, then probably not only did you meet your friends and family, they knew about you even before the meeting, saw pictures and heard a lot of good things. You will probably understand this as well in the first encounter with them. There is also not a bad chance at all that you will soon become part of the guys, because he really wants you to be part of his life.

Hey, hey - no dramas! (Photo: Shatterstock)

Couple (Photo: ShutterStock)

He is very good with you
Yes, being on Viprand Material does not make it flawed and your relationship free of arguments or arguments, but the difference is that they happen fairly. These are not just screams accompanied by throwing ashtrays, and of course no violence is involved in any form, not even literally - you just feel like he's trying to beat you instead of finding a common denominator. The Buirfand Material will be connected to its emotions, understand where anger or sadness comes from and know how to communicate them like a human being. He is not looking to be right or "forever" but to solve the problem, and to do it without blaming or just getting you crazy. Yes, there is such an animal. Beyond that, if it seems that the fight is going to happen in a public place or in a less appropriate situation, he could give up and let it go. He has no need for unnecessary dramas.

He knows how to compromise
It won't help, no relationship has been found in which both parties are in full sync all the time - just didn't happen. That's why it's very important to have someone who knows how to compromise sometimes, and not let you make all the compromises in this relationship. A guy who is Boyfrand Material could give you a place to relate, and settle on certain issues without leaving a rag. It can be in the small things, such as cleaning his apartment to make you feel comfortable or make room for it to belong, and it can also relate to more significant things, such as changing his communication habits in a couple relationship. As the connection deepens the compromises change and habits may change. By the way, he not only compromises for you, he also shows you that he cares about you. If you find the guy who does it, you can be sure that at least you didn't compromise.

Hmmm ... It's not a look of one willing to work on the relationship (Photo: Shatterstock)

Couple (Photo: ShutterStock)

He will also expect you to raise a head
As mentioned, this is not a guy just born to please you. Precisely because the relationship with you is important to him, he will also expect you to contribute to this relationship. Just as there are things that you will not accept, there are also things he is not willing to do. He does not expect you to change for him or to become something you do, only that you are ready to adapt to him as he is willing to do it for you. Conversely, if the guy wasn't really serious about you then he probably wouldn't bother asking at all, because he knows you're temporary, and that doesn't really interest him.

He does cute little things
You'd be surprised, but expensive gifts and grandiose gestures aren't the boyfriend of material, but rather cute little things that will do you good on your heart. If you understand, you know it's the thing that makes a relationship really good. Surely it won't help that he buys a precious piece of jewelry every Tu Bab, if he doesn't put you on it the rest of the year. Besides, anyone can bombard on Valentine's Day. The smart thing is to know how to make the relationship a lasting love day. Some couples, and it starts and ends with the small but significant things. For example, go back to the supermarket with the candy he remembers you love, remember to turn on your uncle without asking because he knows what time you will be back from training, and leave a small note in your suitcase before you go abroad. - And not because you asked, but because he wants you to be pleasant.

He doesn't run away when something doesn't work out
He's a good guy, and he's here to stay. He is not afraid of the difficulties that may be. If you are just starting out, it will not go away when things start to get complicated and come back only when the tension calms down, but will stay and deal, and even if things are complicated or scary, he will try to work on it after all. This is the guy you feel you can be the most open and genuine with. A guy who won't scare you when exposed and vulnerable, and of course he's the guy who also feels comfortable opening up to you, because let's face the truth - there are always difficulties in a relationship, and Boyfrand Material is not a sucker - he'll insist on investing.