Written by: Zhang Meihua
2020-01-26 08:00Last updated: 2020-01-26 08:00
Every Lunar New Year, every family will carefully dress up to relatives and friends to celebrate the New Year, and will also prepare a variety of dishes to spend the festive season with the family. However, last year, Hong Kong experienced anti-revision conflicts. Not only was the society deeply torn apart, many families were also divided into the "yellow" and "blue" camps, which caused conflicts due to differences of views. A Jun (pseudonym), who grew up in the "police family", had to go to family meetings full of differences every month. His experience was particularly deep.
The new year is coming. His new year's wish is that the family can restore the harmony of the past. It is more understanding and considerate. Even if it is not possible to solve the knot immediately, they can also care for each other. "It's too much!"
A Jun (pseudonym), who grew up in the "police family", had to attend family meetings full of differences every month. His family conflict experience was particularly deep. (Photo by Yu Junliang)
During this period of time, there was a big inclination, and there were epigenetic fine-walled furnaces.Police officer son Jun (pseudonym)
In the past six months, the "yellow" and "blue" barriers in the society have been clear. A Jun described his parents and younger brothers as Lan Si, which made him take a "three hits" from time to time at home. However, A Jun described the father and mother two families even more. In addition to being the father of the police, there are also many elders serving as police officers and other disciplined services among relatives and friends. , There are epigenetic surrounding furnaces. " Although there are occasional verbal conflicts between the two generations of family members, A Jun pointed out that the events of recent months also have "benefits", so that the relatives and friends who were originally acquainted with each other became more interested in discussing current affairs and became closer.
Knowing that attending family gatherings will inevitably lead to big and small conflicts, why should we still "prefer to Hushan"? As the grandson of the family, A Jun believes that, "the real estate company of the first generation, on the other hand, is really wise and ideal." He also revealed that the regular family meals every month also began in recent months. It has been "conventional" to "sit on both sides" according to age and Richmond. Most of relatives and friends will adopt the attitude of "river water does not violate well water". Avoiding politics, talking about life's broken things, still talking and laughing, while maintaining rapport, also helps reduce positive collisions.
A Jun revealed that he will bring "two magic weapons", headset and mobile phone respectively. He has planned to worship the Chinese New Year and eat a meal. If anyone raises any topics that are prone to conflicts, he can always wear the headset and enjoy it in a corner. A moment of homemade serenity. (Photo by Yu Junliang)
This year's New Year is just hope, the opening year is too good!Police officer son Jun (pseudonym)
Because the family's concept of the family is quite heavy, A Jun pointed out that on the first day and the second day of the new year, he must visit his parents on an uninterrupted basis to pay New Year's greetings. He smiled and said that he originally planned to bring his girlfriend to "see the parents" for the first time. Facing the New Year ’s problem, Jun plans to bring headphones and a mobile phone “two magic weapons”. After the New Year ’s and meals, if anyone talks about any conflict-prone topic, he can put on the headset at any time and enjoy a moment of self-made Quiet "avoidance."
The Anti-Amendment Movement has caused many families in Hong Kong to have an impact on their relationships. A Jun thinks that there are gains and losses. " Although there are differences in the stances between the young and old generations, there are also deeper exchanges and communication in the relationship between the two generations, but he also laments that the closer cousins in the past, because of their different positions, are expected to this year Chinese New Year may add a little embarrassment. In the new year and new weather, A Jun hopes that the family can restore its former harmony. It is more understanding and considerate. Even if it is not possible to solve the knot immediately, they can also care for each other. It ’s too good! ”
In the new year and new weather, A Jun hopes that the family can restore its former harmony. It is more understanding and considerate. It is a joke, "This year's New Year is only hope, and the opening year is too good!" (Photo by Yu Junliang)
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