You have to take into account that you can be hurt by the important people in your life

Parity is complicated. Complicated to look for, and even more complicated to maintain. We asked some people who know us better than we know ourselves what their good relationship tips are, what they said

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Although marriage and the search for it are very personal things that differ from person to person, the basic things remain very similar, allowing us to share our personal experience with friends, and even pass it on to our children. There is hardly anyone who has no winning tips to share with the world, and the truth? When it comes to relationships, you can learn from everyone.

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That's why we decided to go to people close to us - those who hear our complaints, who see us every day and know us for years, so that they share their winning tips for couples. The psychologist, mother and father, married girlfriend, divorced girlfriend, gay friend and neighborhood bartender, with whom our sister finishes the evening.

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Mom and Dad
Find someone you love to touch. We are 40 years together, and our tip is to always touch. Do not sit one on the other without touching each other. This human heat is critical, and needs to be maintained all the time. It's more important than friendship, especially after many years together, sometimes petting a hand can do good to the heart and keep the love

Your experts from Okcupid
Okcupid experts who know what's happening in the field suggest that you be yourself and talk about what really matters to you, and also write it on your app profile. If you are climate change activists and is that important to you? Talk about it - Millions of Okayukid users addressed the climate change issue in their profile and answered questions related to it, so if you talk about it, chances are you'll find a common denominator and a good basis for conversation.

The married couple
Don't expect your spouse to contain you! It's also an annoying word, and if anyone needs to contain your surplus go to a psychologist - leave your spouse a lover. Of course it has to come with good friendship, there is no matter of ignoring it. There are situations in which the couple in Basa, and you are not available to each other. Life is dynamic. And then frustrations begin - I need him, he's not available, and so on. And if he does something you don't like, don't grind him about it - spouses need to know where their red lines are and never get on it. Do not manage lists. And to end something that is impossible without him - sex, sex, sex. If you are dating someone and the sex is amazing, try to develop long-term friendships with them if you have a lifelong lover and boyfriend. If you did not succeed, but if you manage to combine these two elements together - you win the whole box office.

A company that divorced
As a divorcee who just started dating, I think the most important thing is not letting the past seduce you to the level that you are afraid to fall in love with a grim experience, and no less important - by no means equate your current to your ex-husband. Every man is a whole world, even though we like to put them in a tycoon

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Confident couple (Photo: ShutterStock)

The neighbors' daughter
We asked an 8-year-old girl what's most important when you have a boyfriend. She answered an interesting reply "When you have a friend it means he has to say hello to you in the morning, and sometimes to accompany you home"

The psychologist
When you're dating someone, don't try to change it. By my profession, I can tell you for sure, that everyone can change just about himself, and even that is very difficult. And even then the change should be for yourself and not for a partner. For example, your change may be that you stop trying to change people. Either you decide to take what is there or you decide to move on to someone new. Couples who try to change each other always end up in difficult places.

Gay friend
Before going into this, you must understand that if you want to find love, you must also be prepared to be hurt, because naturally we are hurt by the people closest to us. Precisely when in love, we sometimes forget that we are in contact with humans and not some creature in June from Instagram. We all have battle scars but in order to be in a real relationship you have to lower the barrier no matter how many times you have been hit in the past, it is a price you have to pay for love and not avoid.

The neighborhood bartender
In my opinion the biggest problem is that women do not flow enough, but mostly, they do not differentiate between a man who wants to flow with him and a man who is clearly a flyer. For some reason women do not know how to distinguish the types of men, although it is obvious. I suggest finding out with another man around, for example with me, what I think this man really wants, and only then to flow. And drink something, because there are conversations that would not take place without alcohol