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Written by: Yuan Shu
2020-05-10 10:00
Last update date: 2020-05-10 10:00With the coming of Mother's Day, many people choose to accompany their mothers or give them a gift. For Mr. Deng (Paul), who is already 45 years old, it is an unattainable dream. Before he was born, he was "booked" for 100 yuan, and he couldn't find the name of his biological mother on the birth page. When he learned that he was adopted, Li Chi, the middleman who was responsible for the adoption, Has also passed away ...
The only clue left is the small line of address "371 Portland Street" on the birth page-the birth mother was giving birth at the labor place here. Paul said that he has been guessing the identity of his biological father and mother for a few years, and he also had resentment, but now he just wants to untie a knot. "If you can meet each other, it's enough to have dinner together. Failing to reunite, but on Mother's Day, Paul said that if the biological mother is still alive, she will wish her good health.
He was often scolded in childhood and suddenly learned that he was not his own.
Paul ’s childhood experience was not pleasant. The adoptive father likes to drink and cares less about him, and the adoptive mother often beats and scolds him for small things. He was never true at the time. "The culture at that time was not the concept of parents without monsters."
Until the age of 21, Paul quarreled with his adoptive mother again. The adoptive mother in anger suddenly calmed down and said to him in a plain tone: "You are not my own biological, really not." Paul recalled the moment when he learned the truth. , "Don't realize that something happened to me! I have complained, and later all were reconciled with adoptive parents."
Paul ’s birthplace has been transformed into a western-style building with an elevator. He even did renovations at that address earlier. "Maybe God is reminding me, but it scares me not to realize." (Photo by Huang Shuhui)
The middleman who has been booked before birth has passed away
To know the life experience, for ordinary people, the name of the parents is clearly listed on the birth paper; Paul is not without the birth paper, but the name of the adoptive parents is written on it.
Paul learned from his adoptive father that he had been "reserved" before his birth, with a value of 100 yuan, and the middleman "Li Chi" was responsible for handling the fake birth paper, and then he was sent from the residence. To a foster family. In other words, with the exception of the place where "371 Portland Street" was the place where the birth mother gave birth, the birth paper could not unlock Paul's life secret.
At present, "371 Portland Street" has been transformed into a western-style building with an elevator. Paul said that there is no regrets. He worked as a carpenter more than ten years ago. He had done renovations at that address. "Maybe God is reminding me, but it scares me not realizing."
Looking for clues from looks has many conjectures about birth mothers
After learning that he was not his own, Paul had the idea of finding relatives. He first observed himself continuously, and found that his nose had a "hook" and his eyes were brown, and he felt that he might be a foreign-born hybrid; and Hong Kong movie star Huang Qiusheng successfully found a half-brother who was living in Australia Gave him some hope. Paul hopes to find his own life from his appearance. "Huang Qiusheng has blue eyes, and I have brown eyes."
Paul also believes that his appearance is also evidence. In addition to his nose and eyes, he said that his pair of ears are also different from others.
In the 1950s and 1960s, Hong Kong was in a difficult post-war period, when parents abandoned or adopted their children. Paul, who was born in 1975, also had many conjectures about his parents giving up. He said that it is possible that the parents were also unable to support because of financial difficulties; or the mother was "uh" and had to contact others to take care of him after he was born; The woman in the wind and dust, not even the biological father, may not know, "No matter what the point is, I will not resent the things of decades ago."
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The death of his adoptive parents made him feel "useless"
The adoptive parents had passed away early in the year, and there were no good graces and noble graces, let go of grudges, and Paul also experienced a period of depression. He said that although he had never personally asked his adoptive parents why he should adopt him, he knew that it was because the adoptive mother was unable to have children, and the family wanted a male to support the elderly. "After passing by, I felt that my life mission had been completed for some time. , It seems to have no meaning. "
Looking for Winnie, a close helper, would like to have a healthy mother
In 2018, through media reports, he found Winnie, an artist who helps people find love. Winnie has helped more than 20 people successfully find relatives and reunite them with their families. Accompanied by Winnie, they came to the former site of Yuewen Property and searched for clues again, "I have my own family, and it is my second life. If I can reach my biological parents, it is my third life. . "
On Mother's Day, Paul was still unwilling to find the whereabouts of his biological parents, but he said that if the biological mother was still alive, she would wish her health. He was not unimagined about the scene of reunion, but he swallowed it back to his mouth, and exchanged it with tears, "No, it ’s enough to eat together."
Mr. Deng Information
Adopted Surname: Deng
Sex: Male
Date of birth: July 31, 1975
Place of birth: Yuewen Maternity Office, 371 Portland Street
Forwarder: Li Chi (has passed away, Li Chi's daughter: Li Huiqing)
Contact Winnie Tel +852 9332 0424
Contact Winnie Email info@look4mama.com
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