Father's Day without father│Father died suddenly half a year ago

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Written by: Yin Weiying

2020-06-21 10:00

"Every time I hear a girl named "Daddy", I'm so good-hearted, Qu has been fooling my dad, if I even go to bury, I don't know Qu will count in the future..." Mo Zhifeng, 37, was close to marriage at the end of the year The wife of 5 years has won a lot of money. Last year, she and her wife and daughter celebrated Father's Day for the first time. They also hope that the next Father's Day will hear her daughter call her "Daddy." However, the good times are not constant. Last October, Mo collapsed during his work, and before his wish was fulfilled, he died suddenly, leaving behind his wife and daughter Qi Ting who was not yet one year old.

Mo Tai, who has lost his beloved love and the only economic pillar of his family, has been deeply worried about his future life. In recent months, he has been burgled and found himself suffering from mid-to-late cirrhosis. At present, there are only more than 5,000 yuan in cash. After paying the rent, they were unable to buy daily supplies such as milk powder and diapers for their only half-year-old daughters, and the public urgently needed a helping hand. The Industrial Casualty Rights and Interests Association (CTO) learned about the situation of the Mo family and hoped to help the young girl to respond. Therefore, with the consent of the widow, she opened a fundraising project for Xiao Qianting on the "01 Xinyi" platform. The widow Motai is a young girl's emergency living expenses.

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House leak coincides with the night rain father died six months after the mother diagnosed liver disease

I've been married for 5 years. I haven't seen Qu (Mo Zhifeng) taking medicine and I haven't heard anything uncomfortable. After receiving the phone call, he went to the hospital. He thought he fell in love with his whole family and went to the hospital. He had gone.

Mo Zhifeng used to work as a chef in a chain restaurant, and met with Mo Tai at a friend's wedding. Later, he found that the same dog lovers, so that the two slowly approached. After marriage, because Mo Tai is still applying for a one-way permit to come to Hong Kong, he can’t bear his wife to live alone, so I would like to walk on both sides of Hong Kong every day. I also rent a house in Shenzhen and build a love nest with Mo Tai, and look forward to the family going back to Hong Kong to carry out more changes in the future. good life. Unexpectedly, the daily life of early departure and late return made him lack of rest for a long time, and even buried hidden health risks.

"If you don't know what to do, you will suddenly leave. Before Zhong Zhong said, it would be better to give BB to the mother-in-law of Guangxi. We will do it together with our two parents-in-law, save a few years of money and wait for BB to return to school to take care of himself." Mo Tai said that at the moment of learning of Mr.'s death, the whole person cried to the ground and couldn't accept that she lost her love forever, but she didn't even think that this was just the beginning of a series of bad luck.

Mo Tai said that the cause of his death was ischemic heart failure, the doctor estimated that it might be related to his overwork. (Photo by Huang Shuhui)

After Mr.'s death, Mo Tai had to face sadness, but also had to deal with matters such as Mr.'s back affairs and company compensation. She was unable to take care of the young Xiao Qianting, so she gave her daughter to her mother and sister living in Guangxi. After assisting in taking care of her, she planned to settle down and then took Xiao Qianting to Hong Kong to start a new life. However, Motai's uncle suddenly diagnosed cirrhosis and died a month later. The family was suddenly in chaos. She had to return home immediately to take care of her daughter. Since then, due to liver problems, he has always come silently, and due to the outbreak of epidemic in China and Hong Kong, he stayed in Guangxi, so he went to the hospital to check the liver and found that only 33 years old himself had suffered from advanced cirrhosis.

"It's a thunderbolt on a sunny day, so surprised that a girl will order in the future. I'll look at each other late, and I will scream and hide, my father will not leave for a year, if I go buried, can I live alone?" A daughter who is naive and not yet worried about the future, Mo Tai bluntly felt more sad, afraid that she would not see her daughter grow up, and more worried about her future. Currently, Mo Tai is taking medicines prescribed by mainland doctors and plans to go to the public hospitals in Hong Kong for re-examination, hoping that with appropriate treatment, she can slow down her condition and allow her to continue taking care of the young Xiao Qianting.

At present, Mo Tai is taking two medicines prescribed by mainland doctors, hoping to delay the development of the disease, but the monthly medical expenses are as high as 3,000 and 4,000 yuan. The medical expenses make Mo Tai feel very difficult. (Photo by Huang Shuhui)

Only 5,000 yuan left in a house burglary account

When I returned to Hong Kong, the prophet’s house was burgled, and my family got 5,000 mosquitoes. I can eat white porridge and mustard, but pay the next month’s rent. I can’t even buy milk powder or diapers. Wandering.

In order to allow Xiao Qianting to adapt to life in Hong Kong as early as possible, Mo Taiben has rented a rooftop house in Kwun Tong District. Even though the environment is not very good, and there are rats, she hopes that her daughter can go to school in Hong Kong. good life. Mo Taiyuan intends to temporarily rely on the gratuity of the company's 10,000 yuan and the small amount of money raised by the Workers' Union last year for them, hoping to clench his teeth and wait for Xiao Qianting to enter the kindergarten, and then resume her career. Engaged in pet grooming to earn money to support the family. But she couldn't imagine that after returning to Hong Kong from Guangxi last month, her home was burgled and stolen more than 20,000 yuan in cash and a small amount of goldware. At present, there are only about 5,000 yuan left, and she is unable to cope with Xiao Qianting's daily basics. Expenditure, let alone my own medical expenses of 3,000 to 4,000 yuan per month.

After returning to Hong Kong last month, Mo Tai was shocked to learn that he had been burgled in a house, which was cluttered, covered with cockroaches and mice, and stolen with only the living expenses of his daughter. "Well, I shouted. Grandma, Qu told me to stay in Qudu for the time being." Although Mo Tai has called the police for help, the police have not recovered the lost property. (Provided by the interviewee)

Affected by her illness, Mo Tai was not as strong as before. Every time she went out, she took Xiao Qianting to walk home on the 10-floor stairs, making her both physically and mentally exhausted. (Photo by Huang Shuhui)

I was asked if I would consider moving to live with my grandmother and uncle. Mo Tai admitted that the husband had nothing to do at first. He ran away from home in his early 20s and had a poor relationship with her mother. She did not contact her again until she was born. Grandma’s relationship is not very close, and they are more worried about their different living habits, and they are prone to conflicts. "Grandma is already in her 60s, and it’s hard to be visually impaired, and it’s hard to help take care of BB. I don’t want to have a good relationship with each other, in case I have something to do in the future. No one will take care of BB.

Mo Taishen knows that long poverty is difficult to care for, so even if cirrhosis causes her to often feel tired and exhausted, when Xiao Qianting enters kindergarten, she will work to support her family. The Workers’ Association learned of the tragic situation of the Motai family and immediately provided them with emergency food assistance and arranged social workers to follow up on welfare matters. However, it is still urgent to raise living expenses for Motai and Xiaoqianting in the next few months. Otherwise, They will not be able to pay for basic expenses such as food, clothing, housing and transportation.

Please log in to "01 Heart" and donate to Xiao Xiting for the emergency. The raised funds will be fully paid to Motai's daughter's emergency living expenses. "Hong Kong 01" will never charge handling fees and administrative fees to donors and charities.

Donate immediately and urgently support Xiao Qianting's basic living expenses:
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