Burst
Written by: Shao Peilin and Chen Nuoxi
2020-09-26 10:45
Last update date: 2020-09-26 16:01
At 9:36 am today (26th), a young couple committed suicide by burning charcoal in a unit in Xiuli Building, Yau Lai Estate, Yau Tong.
It is known that the male and female deceased were in a relationship. The 21-year-old surnamed Wen had a 3-year-old son. She lived in Youli Village with her ex-husband and son in her early years, but after her divorce, the son moved out of the unit with her ex-husband.
Wen and his 22-year-old boyfriend surnamed Chen Xin moved into the public housing unit on the site.
According to the news, the female victim is suspected of being troubled by the issue of fighting for the custody of the unit and her son, and the two are on a dead end.
Police officers found the suicide note of the two deceased at the scene. Wen Nu suspected that she had gone to ruin due to financial, relationship and family problems, while Chen Nan said she voluntarily accompanied her girlfriend in search of death.
When the district councilor Wang Weilin said that on Monday (21st) the male and female victims asked him for help, saying that Wen's ex-husband suddenly replied that they wanted to take back the unit. They met on Wednesday (23) for legal consultation, but the male and female victims on that day The appointment was missed and the tragedy was revealed today.
The detectives seized the charcoal and pot and other exhibits from the unit. Afterwards, the Ai Xie staff took a cat from the unit. It was suspected to be frightened and kept meowing.
It is known that as early as this Wednesday (23rd) after Wen and her 46-year-old mother named Zhao, her family could not contact the two.
So far the victim’s mother came to find out and opened the door with a key to enter the house, but found that the door was locked and called the police.
Firefighters broke into the room and found that the male and female deceased were lying on the bed. There were two plates of burnt charcoal at the scene.
It is understood that after the 21-year-old deceased woman separated from her ex-husband, her ex-husband was granted custody and the deceased woman lived in a unit in Youli Village.
However, the ex-husband suddenly retorted and said that he wanted to take back the unit. The male and female deceased had asked district councillor Wang Weilin for help.
Wang Weilin pointed out that the two met last Monday (21st) for legal consultation on Wednesday (23rd) evening, but they lost their appointment and lost contact on that day.
Wang Xuhui pointed out that the two deceased had a positive attitude when they asked for help, and they were very surprised when they learned of the incident.
By 2 o'clock in the afternoon, the SAA staff took a cat away from the unit that caused the accident. It was suspected to be frightened and kept meowing.
Ai Xie said that the adult domestic cat was taken away and was initially in good condition.
Pain or overwhelming personal emotions, avoid digging into the corner and seek appropriate assistance
Situ Hamming, a family and parent-child educator in Hong Kong, said that many marital problems and divorce incidents will cause a great blow to the parties and will endure varying degrees of pressure.
When the negative emotions and hatred towards the person increase, it will cause distress and pressure to the person.
"Problems arising from marriage will follow up, including financial issues, child custody and housing issues."
Situ Hamming believes that in the face of embarrassment and pain, the person has a chance to be overwhelmed by his personal emotions and make a mistake.
At this point, the victim can confide in his family or relatives and friends. He hopes that the person concerned will understand that after a period of time waits for the pain to pass, it will rain and the weather will clear after the matter is dealt with, and he will ask someone around him to listen.
Once you find that someone around you is in emotional embarrassment, companionship and support can provide comfort to the victim. "Acquainted friends should listen and support. The incident is not about fighting alone. There is a way out for everything. Don't take the horns and force yourself on the road of no return. "If the victim still hasn't gotten out of the pain, he can seek help from public organizations, including housing, financial assistance, and emotional support.
Help website and hotline:
The Hong Kong Samaritan Association for the Prevention of Suicide Hotline: 23892222
Hospital Authority Mental Health Line: 24667350
Tung Wah Group of Hospitals Zhi Ruo Yuen Hotline: 18281
Samaritan Hotline: 28960000
Social Welfare Department Hotline: 23432255
Life Hotline: 23820000
Liminhui "Instant Communication": 35122626
Caritas Xiangqing Hotline: 18288
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