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Sexual fantasy as a shot of desire

2020-10-10T01:50:47.697Z


The ideology or sexual imaginary brings us closer to future loversHaving sexual fantasies is the most widespread sexual practice. Although specialists claim to treat people who are unable to develop them, the ability to devise situations that excite us is something that we begin to develop at an early age. Until the age of 13, it is not considered that they pass the self-exploration phase, but from then on, as sexed beings, adolescents begin to imagine how to ge


Having sexual fantasies is the most widespread sexual practice.

Although specialists claim to treat people who are unable to develop them, the ability to devise situations that excite us is something that we begin to develop at an early age.

Until the age of 13, it is not considered that they pass the self-exploration phase, but from then on, as sexed beings, adolescents begin to imagine how to get the pleasure that they already know exists;

and they start to want it

.

Developing that imagination is also a great job.

Let them imagine.

"It is often thought that the mess with fantasies is in their content, as if there were some good and some bad," smiles Miguel Vagalume, a psychosexologist specializing in unconventional sexualities and

alma mater

from Golfxsconprincipios.com.

"Actually, where we should focus our attention is on the widespread belief that our fantasies are a kind of sketch of reality, as if these were the plan we devised to carry out something afterwards. And in reality it is not the immense most of the time, "he adds.

Those fantasies, which on many occasions do not materialize, feed our desire;

they become the gasoline with which we try to achieve a better sexuality.

That is why it is so healthy to imagine that we succeed in the best beds, no matter how unattainable.

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"One of the problems with fantasies is that we believe that they are the germ of what we are going to do", clarifies Miguel Vagalume.

Fantasies and our behavior may be very similar, but they have very different rules.

"Our fantasies do not affect anyone, they only happen inside our head. They have an origin as complex and as tangled as dreams. And like dreams, they are a mixture of desires, of fears, of things that we do not understand.

Our dreams and Our desires are the result of the environment and culture, but also of our experiences in life, our desire, our contradictions ... and as with dreams, if there is a recurring, obsessive fantasy that worries us, we can look for the help from professionals ", emphasizes Vagalume.

Sexual fantasies serve to degrease and hone our desire.

They are an injection of positive thoughts that come in handy.

We don't even need to be in a bad emotional time to take advantage of those thoughts, although people with depression admit to stop fantasizing just as they stop wishing.

Ana Lombardía, head of Sex on the skin, compares sexual fantasies in some way with medications.

They are an injection of pleasure.

Masturbating having erotic fantasies, recreating what we like the most and trying to achieve it is very good.

"We devise a perfect scenario in which everything that happens is positive. This activates our desire. We enjoy it. Fantasies develop libido, since we devise the steps to follow to give ourselves pleasure. Few things are as beneficial as thinking this beautiful ", says the expert.

What is thinking beautiful?

Can someone's carnal thoughts be controlled?

Who decides which ones are correct and which ones are not?

"

The field of fantasies is an immense and rich field, in which we can get to know each other better, discover new things and enjoy experiences that we may never have.

A space of our own to squeeze. And it is easier to enjoy it knowing that it is not the origin of what is that we will do in the future, "adds Lombardia.

But beware, "if any idea becomes an intrusive thought, whether it has an erotic content or not, then it is a good idea to seek the help of professionals to give us recommendations on how to handle it. But not because of its content related to sex, but for the discomfort it causes us. "

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Source: elparis

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