Clubs for meeting unconventional sexualities

Ligar is one of the verbs that we like to conjugate the most and to which we indulge in one way or another.

Everyone has their own way of achieving it.

There is no exact formula or a potion that allows you to seduce the audience.

But when you get out of the norm, flirting gets complicated.

Where do people who are

in bed flirt?

Sexual norms change.

What a few years ago was audacious, today is considered indispensable.

Happening, they happened, but talking about the issue, normalizing what is said, we have achieved that little by little.

Take oral sex, for example.

Few people would think that he did not enter the amatory display of any carnal encounter.

But if you like to be tied with ropes that can rub against your flesh and skin until you get turned on and cum, you have a hard time finding someone who knows

, which is the name of the lovemaking technique in question.

And that more and more courses are offered, even

, like the next one only for women, completely free, offered by Las velas negra, the club set up by two sexologists, a couple, to give workshops on unconventional sexualities. 

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For networking and learning, the classic of classics is FetLife.

"It is the network with the most users and the most activity anywhere in the world", describes Ángel Barbero, general director of Recubica.

"It has had many criticisms of usability and security, but it is still there. Many other offers emerged, especially in

format

but most have been disappearing and FetLife continues."

One of the secrets of this community lies in the way you make your profile.

The character that enters its corners is defined as it is considered.

Sex is not only the gender woman and man.

"Most of the web pages dedicated to meetings are American," Ángel Barbero continues, "with little impact on other countries."

The review of

existing

is nourished, In the App Store, for example, there is Alt, Kinkoo, KinkD, all willing to find someone with whom you can share pleasures.

All with a

option

in case you are willing to pay to be put in touch with the best.

But Miguel Vagalume,

of Golfxosconprincipios, remembers that it is not a good idea to pay on dating portals: "eHarmony claims to have more than 20 million members on its website, and its CEO, Greg Waldorf, insists on that number in interviews he gives. If your goal is to find someone special, 20 million people is to have tons of options, about a quarter of all single people in America. That sounds wonderful until you realize that most of those people can't answer, because only paying customers can. Only one in 30 of those 20 million customers is someone you can talk to. "

That is why Fetlife succeeds;

its

option

only affects video sharing, but not messaging.

You may even be unaware of many of the sexual practices that are exhibited, but allow communication so that you can discover them.

That makes users learn, know, know and can relate.

And to make yourself the character, it is fantastic: "You find words that define you better, because it allows you to describe your fetishes very well, even to say that you are

(conventional sexuality). Nothing happens. You put almost any fetish and that makes you show yourself in a sex portal as you are ".

Practitioners of unconventional sexualities continue to have a reputation for being

.

They don't come to a bar, they meet someone and they say: "Hi, I'm a

(person who practices BDSM)."

Flirting is difficult to conjugate in these cases.

"I've been hearing for years that mine is not normal," admits Cristina, who likes to play submissive with her masters.

"For me, the BDSM workshops that are given in the erotic shop in my neighborhood (in her case, Lola's pleasures) have been fundamental. There we met people interested in the same subject. Thanks to that I met my current partner. In bars, until now, I had not been able to find the right person. Mine is never normal. "  

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