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Written by: campus submission
2021-05-06 09:00
Last update date: 2021-05-06 09:00
God gave me a "fate" to meet my children, which made me and the Buddhist Zeng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten forty years of deep affection.
When it comes to kindergarten, there are endless stories...!
The following is the experience I have gained from my work. I would like to share with you. I hope that parents can feel our enthusiasm for serving the Sham Shui Po community over the past 40 years. , I hope to put forward some ideas on the establishment of a good parent-child relationship between parents and children.
(Photo of Buddhist Zeng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten)
First of all, I will introduce the Buddhist Tseng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten I grew up with. We have always been committed to providing quality early childhood education and serving families in Sham Shui Po District.
During the period of high demand for early childhood education services, more than 100 students graduate each year, and there are more than 400 students in the school.
By organizing various activities and gatherings, we can deeply understand the needs of each family and establish different communication channels to create a good relationship between home and school and establish the concept of "big family".
Looking back on the past years, they are full of unforgettable sweet memories.
Forty without confusion, this garden has been rooted in Sham Shui Po for forty years. We will continue to uphold the Buddhist compassionate spirit and cultivate good virtues and wisdom for children.
Through the implementation of Buddhism education, children’s positive values are cultivated, so that children can understand the spirit of the Buddha, adhering to the school motto "To be wise to show sadness", and to establish a kind and positive outlook on life, so that children can practice it in their daily lives, and be subtle Under the Tao, improve children's self-discipline and self-learning ability, establish a correct learning attitude, and positive values.
This kindergarten attaches great importance to the development of children's character and moral education. It learns meditation language during the morning meeting every day to promote children's spiritual education and strengthen children's correct attitude towards dealing with things and getting along with others.
In addition, in order to continue and promote Buddhism value education, Buddhist scripture stories are set up to share and discuss with children every week, and moral education stories are included in the school-based regular curriculum to train students to "do not do evil, all good will follow." The spirit of compassion, establish a correct outlook on life, be kind and generous, cultivate the spirit of child care service groups, and establish a caring culture in the school.
The school has been using the same school building since its establishment.
Forty years of school buildings are often reminiscent of "old" and "tattered."
Now, please take out your phone, open the sketcher, and scan the QR Code of this article. Welcome to the Buddhist Zeng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten.
The interior and exterior of the school building are carefully designed by all faculty and staff. The curriculum content and learning tools are all designed to meet the different developmental stages and needs of children to provide the most appropriate services.
In addition, the kindergarten organizes diversified interest activities especially to enrich children's learning experience.
For example: Cantonese opera, Japanese class, dance group, STEM interest group, Chinese culture and art group and uniform team, etc., so that children can learn about themselves from a variety of activities, cultivate interest, and show their expertise.
High-quality parent-child relationship is conducive to the growth of children
Are you mentally prepared to be a parent?
Parents should shoulder the responsibility of taking care of their children and let them grow up in a healthy and happy environment. In addition to daily living and eating, you also need to spend time playing game consoles or playing mobile phones. Give your children a deeper love than the deep sea. Let's create the path of the future together, so, are you willing?
Why do I say this?
I hope you who read this article can consider whether you are suitable to be a competent parent.
This is what I have seen in many years of work, and I feel it.
To get along with your children, you must have quality parent-child time.
According to the definition of Attachment Theory, as long as parents respond appropriately to their children, paying attention to their emotional changes and understanding their inner world will help children build a sense of security.
However, some parents ignore everyone’s interaction when they are with their children. Their eyes are always looking at their mobile phones and not paying much attention to what their children are doing, so there is no high-quality parent-child time.
High-quality parent-child time means that parents should spend their minds and efforts to take care of their children, focus on all their children's affairs, and give appropriate responses, which can be called high-quality parent-child time.
In daily life, such as in restaurants, cars, parks, etc., we often see parents let their children play with their mobile phones, and no one interacts with others, which is not ideal. High-quality parent-child time refers to the genuine interaction between parents and their children.
If parents can devote themselves to managing the parent-child relationship with their heart and soul, their children can thrive under love and care.
Children's growth goes through different stages. The first stage is kindergarten education, which requires kindergarten teachers to establish a sense of security, self-esteem and positive emotions for children. In the primary school stage, basic abilities are gradually developed to match brain development, such as: Under appropriate stimuli, they can trigger logical thinking and learn knowledge; in adolescence, they can cultivate their independent thinking and the ability to distinguish right from wrong; in adulthood, if the foundation is well laid, he can be able to make choices, challenges or plan life. Make the right choice, give full play to your strengths, and contribute to society.
In the children's world, the most important person is the parents. The security, self-esteem, and optimistic and healthy emotions we mentioned above all come from the parent-child relationship, and the role of parents cannot be replaced by others.
As long as the child can build up a good sense of security, self-esteem and emotional health from an early age, it can help them grow up, despite setbacks and unexpected changes, he still has the ability to stand up and not be surprised, because his sense of security is firmly established .
To put it simply, children get love in quality parent-child time since childhood. Under the guidance of their parents, they experience care, learn tolerance, practice understanding, and bravely face the challenges of life. As long as they cultivate children to have positive values, when they grow up, it is easy to be right. People have trust, strong ability to face adversity, and sound emotional management.
(Photo of Buddhist Zeng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten)
Parents, please start from this moment, stop for a while; put down the electronic products in your hand, quietly, think about it, how will you nurture your little baby to grow?
The following parenting methods are recommended to parents in this kindergarten for many years. Based on their opinions, they are very effective. I hope they can help other families and establish a good parent-child relationship between parents and their children.
Parents must understand that each child is unique: as the child grows up, all kinds of acquisitions are made step by step.
Don't expect your child to win at the starting line, such as: the child's appearance, height and weight, speaking ability, academic performance... etc., all have to be compared with other children in order to be better than others.
As a result, the relationship between parents and children will generate tension, cause invisible pressure, affect the parent-child relationship, and bring psychological threats to the children. In severe cases, it will affect their future growth.
Often play parent-child games with children to integrate into daily life: Parents can share housework with their children through games. For example, before a meal, parents can ask their children to help arrange chopsticks; before washing clothes, they can sort the clothes. There are buttons. Dark and light colors, clothing materials to classify daily housework and other daily chores, let the children share the work that can be done.
In addition, cooking ingredients is also a good parent-child game. For example, use some simple ingredients such as fruits, soba noodles, etc., to create patterns that children like, so that children will eat more happily.
Through this short period of parent-child time, you can make food and talk with your child. It is easy for everyone to let the child tell the parent what he thinks. This is what the child likes to do, and the most important thing is the parent-child time. In the middle of the world, parents also feel a sense of joy, and get closer and closer to their children.
Arrange parent-child reading time: Reading is the basis for learning knowledge. It only takes fifteen minutes a day for parent-child reading to unlock the key to the treasure house of wisdom, so that children can develop good reading habits since childhood, love reading, love thinking, and love introspection.
In terms of choosing reading materials, it can be educational books. Choose suitable books, increase knowledge, and be used throughout your life. It can cultivate good morals and sentiments in temperament and benefit children.
As long as children are book lovers, they will read often, and they will become supernatural, because they have an extra pair of eyes to see the world and discern the present from the past.
Parent-child communication must be two-way in order to be effective: communicating with children is very important for their healthy growth.
When parents and children are together, they can use discussion or sharing to encourage children to express their thoughts and emotions, and to listen to their children patiently.
Try to create a relaxed, cheerful, and harmonious atmosphere, be a friend of your child, and establish a channel for parent-child communication.
Integrating Chinese and Western cultures requires proclaiming "love" without being implicit: Chinese and Western cultures each have their own advantages; when it comes to parenting, each has its own experience.
I am convinced that every parent loves their children, but the love of parents should also be spoken out. Use more expressions such as "I love you" and "I like you" to bring each other closer.
Parents must learn to praise their children, appreciate children, discover and affirm their children's strengths, and accept their children's shortcomings.
Below the epidemic, how can parents protect your parent-child relationship with your children?
During the epidemic, compared with your child day and night, has your relationship with your child improved?
Finally, as an early childhood educator, my teaching team not only plays the role of educator, but also shoulders the role of listener.
I firmly believe that "everything starts with the heart", and I will "love" every child with my heart.
I also believe that as a parent, you, like us, take care of your children with your heart and love. Please remember that no matter how busy and tired you are, you must also create quality parent-child time.
When the child grows up in the future, looking back at the past are all beautiful and sweet memories.
(Content provided by Buddhist Zeng Guocheng Chinese-English Kindergarten)
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