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Why it is important to resort to mediation before divorce - but also after
Many couples who are about to divorce can save the marriage through a mediation procedure.
But you will be surprised, even after divorce mediation can help a lot.
Especially when the couple has children whose well-being is most important
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Esther Mizrahi, in collaboration with Legal Zap
Tuesday, 29 June 2021, 15:06 Updated: 15:14
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It is often thought that a family mediation procedure can only be performed during a marital relationship, for example as a last resort before divorce.
But in fact a mediation procedure can be performed at any stage of the marital relationship, and it can be very helpful: before divorce, during a divorce process, and you will be surprised - even after divorce.
Before a couple decides to separate, a mediation procedure can help them find the glue, what connected them in the first place.
Mediation in divorce proceedings can allow spouses to separate with respect, and mediation after divorce can help maintain mutual respect for the benefit of the children.
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Pre-Divorce Mediation (Pre-Divorce): Return the glue
For those who have reached a dead end in their marital relationship, it is advisable not to rush into divorce. Before taking the dramatic step, it is advisable to recalculate a route, and do so through a mediation procedure. Such a procedure will try to find the common points of connection between the couple, instead of what separates them.
To give a home peace of mind a chance, the couple should look at the old photo albums, and recall the shared experiences they built the relationship to bring back the glue. The mediation process itself will seek to identify through targeted conversations the focus of the conflict between the couple that caused the relationship to escalate.
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Sometimes the focus of the conflict is a significant problem, such as domestic violence, drug and alcohol addiction or gambling. In such a case mediation in itself will not benefit the couple, and they must seek outside assistance. However, when the nature of the conflict is a communication problem, mistrust, problems in arguments in the education of the children and more, it is worth giving mediation a real chance.
In the mediation process which is done through a couple workshop, brings the couple, the ability and ability to argue right with each other, listen and build a common conversation.
Only with the help of listening and building the common glue, can we build friendships and mutual respect that will get the relationship back on track.
Divorce Mediation: Finish it nicely
If you have already reached this point, do it wisely.
Sometimes, at a certain point in the mediation process, the couple goes on a proactive break from the process of a few months to examine how they manage independently and without "crutches". To test whether they have internalized the tools they have acquired, and know how to apply them in real life in front of each other.
Of the many couples, many manage to get on the wave, and greatly improve the couple communication between them. Others need longer-term assistance. However, there are couples whose time-out only aggravates their situation, and the decision to divorce them is simply inevitable.
In such cases, just before the couple's rage turns into an ugly divorce battle in court, they are advised to go through a family mediation process, and make a divorce agreement together. This way the two will be able to save a lot of time, and heartache. A divorce agreement is especially good both financially and in terms of maintaining mutual respect, in order to prevent a difficult and frustrating separation, both for the couple and for their children.
It is worth noting that separation can cause children severe emotional problems.
Therefore, one or both spouses should take responsibility, transcend themselves and acquire the rules for building a healthy discourse for the benefit of children who find themselves in a situation through no fault of their own.
Post-Divorce Mediation: Learning to Live as Separates
Children of divorced couples often have a capsule aspiration that their parents will be together again, however many divorced couples behave towards each other (and vice versa) in hostility and alienation, which causes their children great sorrow, fears, closure and more. It is worth noting that the state of escalation of the parents continues and even though the property and custody of the children have been settled. Hence it is worth addressing the emotional side
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The meetings between the parents and the children are done through play, creation, a shared story between the parents and the children, in order to learn how to wage fewer wars and curb the desire for revenge.To allow the child to feel father and mother, and even though they do not get along, they will be able to meet It is worth noting that these encounters resolve a lot of unnecessary disputes, and those who benefit from it are the children who need to feel their parents.
* The author is the owner of SHI College - Parenting and Family College.
Founds the EST method of discourse, stability and resilience to the point of satisfaction in the marital relationship.
Esther Mizrahi
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information presented in the article does not constitute legal advice or a substitute for it and does not constitute a recommendation for taking proceedings or avoiding proceedings.
Anyone who relies on the information in the article does so at his own risk
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