"Dad is not a mother": Anna Aronov in a revealing post about parenting Israel today

Less than three months ago, Anna Aronov became a mother when she gave birth to the sweet baby man, and she already has deep insights on the subject.

The star posted a long post to Instagram, in which she details the differences between the two parents, but how much they both go through a process on their own.

"Dad is not a mom in the most positive sense of the word," Aronov opened the post, "1. Dad is not a mom because a nine-month-old mom feels she is giving up, having a hard time, having cravings, heartburn, gas, lack of sleep, body changes she is allowed Right now everything and Dad is not allowed to whine about anything because he is not a mother but in essence he is also a human being and not easy for him sometimes, especially when mom pipes and is allowed to have a hard time sometimes even if he is not pregnant.

"Dad is not a mother because she is giving birth but comes out a monster (speaks only from personal experience :)) hormone-bombed, irrational and insecure, full of guilt but father must contain everything. He must not answer and argue. Because mother has given birth and cried. It's not at all it's the hormones and desire to be perfect.But Thales is allowed to him because both he had a child and it is not easy for him.

"Dad is not mom because mom has instincts, she knows, she feels, she sees and remembers everything. So not dad always feels like mom, but he gives full of other things, with a good dad. Different but really good. And dad does not have to Being a mother because one mother is enough, so there is nothing to expect from him to be you and also to be upset that he is not.

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"Dad is not mom because mom reads, follows developmental counselors, sleep consultants, watches videos, listens to lectures, mom wants to know everything and try. Then dad comes back from work and he's not a loop about what mom is talking about. It's okay, dad is not mom Sometimes he will not listen to the mother and do the opposite and will also remind you that there are no rules and that you will not feel that you are failing if something does not work as on Instagram. And not all children are the same and that babies cry.

"In short, a father is not a mother and it's good that everyone brings a different love, a different concern, a different role, different things to the table that connect to a perfect puzzle of love for the child. Eyal," she added in a personal address to her partner Eyal Algabi. Win big! And so do I. "

Aronov added an emoji with hearts in her eyes, and asked her followers how it works for them.

The reactions were not long in coming, and most respondents agreed with the new mother: "Indeed, and you wrote very well. With us we would say: The mother has nine months to learn; to know; to connect. When the baby is born, the father becomes pregnant," one respondent wrote, "In each other! And I, too," won my partner. I very much identify with what you wrote. In the end, everyone brings with them a different form of love, a different concern that together they are whole. "