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Solving dreams
This way you will know what your child is going through - through his dreams
Our children's dreams can tell us a lot about their inner world, their desires, aspirations and fears.
Properly deciphering their dreams can help us as parents give the right tools to our children and support them in times of crisis
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Daphne Bismuth
Thursday, 28 October 2021, 23:36
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Five facts about dreams ("Do not miss" system)
Dreams are a highway to give our consciousness.
They reflect things from our daily lives and help us understand our most hidden desires and fears.
Dreams of children and teenagers are an important look at their inner world.
They may express mental distress, fear and social problems which at these ages are very critical to building their adult identity.
As parents the question arises is we able to help them deal with various problems by deciphering their dreams?
Children tend to interpret dreams from their own angle, with self-interpretation becoming a secret that they keep to themselves, sometimes also in a negative and dangerous aspect.
Parents who have cooperation, understanding and transparency in their relationships with their children can be helped by their dreams to be exposed to their deepest feelings.
By deciphering the messages hidden in dreams we can give them the right tools and help them solve their problems.
I also recommend parents of teenagers, who are usually less likely to share their experiences with their parents, try to approach the child, offer to write down their dreams in a personal diary and in case he dreams of something unusual - come and share.
Dreams can attest to many issues the adolescent faces, including his or her sexual identity, sexual maturity, sexual urges and fantasies, rebellion against authority and rules of society, risk-taking, gambling, drug experience, alcohol or cigarettes, emotional fickleness, feelings of self-loss, emptiness and alienation. , A desire to reach self-realization and self-definition and a desire to express different opinions.
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Dreams give a glimpse into the depths of the soul (Photo: ShutterStock)
Here are nine types of dreams that may indicate a problem:
Dream of drowning
Dreams of drowning in the sea may indicate a sense of frustration and despair that the dreamer is going through.
Pay attention to other things that appear in the dream.
If the dreamer was rescued by one of the students at the school where he is studying, he may have developed feelings towards that person.
In such a case the sea symbolizes the world of emotions and insecurity of the dreamer regarding the connection with that student.
The drowning itself signals distress while the rescue may indicate a fantasy, a desire to build contact with the rescuer.
In such a case the child should be helped to understand his feelings towards that person, to understand if it is something that has chances of success in reality and if necessary to encourage the child to try to promote this relationship.
A dream about sex
In adolescence the fantasies are expressed both on the sexual level and on the social level as an expectation of realization.
Dreams of having sex in adolescence may indicate the sexual and emotional development of the adolescent.
There are dreams in which the act clarifies the sexual identity of the adolescent.
Sometimes these dreams do not indicate a need for a sexual experience but rather ambition and a focus on fulfilling desires.
In this case, the dreamer has to set goals and challenges that he wants to meet in the coming year - and decide on the means that will help him get there.
A dream of a living creature chasing you
In adolescence, what the environment thinks of you has a high weight, especially in the world of social networks.
An animal chasing you in a dream may indicate a person who calls himself a "friend," but he is not honest with the dreamer and may harm him.
If in a dream a dog is chasing you and is the dog of one of your friends, the relationship with that friend should be re-examined.
There is reason to suspect the credibility of your friends (Photo: ShutterStock)
Dream of lice, worms or itching
Dreams of this type symbolize worries, concerns or nuisances in the daily life of the adolescent.
This is usually related to the social aspect and the personal image in society.
A dream about worms in the hands may indicate concerns in the field of doing and perseverance.
The worms in the dream reflect worries that prevent the dreamer from persevering in his success in school and in life.
In this case it is advisable to check which factors are interfering with him meeting his goals.
Dreams about flying
Spiritual ability begins to appear in us in adolescence and so dreams on a flight symbolize the first buds of spirituality and the awareness of dreams as an exit from the body - an astral experience.
The flight in the dream symbolizes the daring of the dreamer and the spiritual ability to detach from reality to a parallel reality.
Disengagement to a parallel reality (Photo: ShutterStock)
A dream of a fall or a car accident
These dreams symbolize fear of loss of control, deviation from purpose and failure.
A fall and an accident in a dream symbolize that the dreamer does not meet the goal he set for himself and as a result is forced to acknowledge the failure and disappoint his parents.
The dreamer seeks in the dream external help to realize his goals.
A dream about an accident in which a member of the passenger in the vehicle is injured may indicate the dreamer's fear of injuring a friend and lead to a rift between them.
If the dreamer is driving in a dream then driving can attest to his leadership nature.
Dream of death
In adolescence, the adolescent tries to understand the boundaries between life and death.
Death in a dream symbolizes the end of a chapter in the dreamer's life and the beginning of a new chapter.
Death shows that the dreamer has emotional difficulties moving from one state to another.
In a dream about the death of a person to whom the dreamer is very attached, it indicates the dreamer's understanding that this person may die at some point and the fear of losing him.
The death of that person in a dream may symbolize a positive change in the life of the "dead" in the dream.
Dream of mountaineering or boarding an elevator
These dreams symbolize high expectations that the adolescent has of himself in school or in society.
A lift or a mountain climb indicate the dreamer's ambition and abilities to develop in places unfamiliar to him - and to succeed in them.
A dream that shows ambition (Photo: ShutterStock)
A dream about divorcing parents
In adolescence the child is able to understand how his parents' relationship is conducted.
Dreams of divorce show that the dreamer is disturbed by his parents' relationship and fears its impact on his life.
It is important for the adolescent to maintain stability in his personal life frame as this forms a solid foundation in front of his peers.
A change in marital status may adversely affect his or her social and academic status.
In contrast, a dream of divorced parents uniting indicates the dreamer's desire for union between his parents and a desire for a united family.
Let the child write down his dreams in a personal diary and encourage him to share them with you (Photo: ShutterStock)
How do you help?
Parental awareness of their adolescent children's dreams and their message is an issue that can provide a basis for parent-child cooperation.
The adolescent's life is complex and we as parents can help him by improving our ability to listen and talk to him. In these dreams and with their proper decipherment help him cope with his life as an adolescent and us in his empowerment process.In addition guided imagery exercises can be performed.The guided imagery process can be combined with soothing music and deep breathing in which the adolescent learns to calm himself before bed or before an important test.
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