In matters of romantic relationship, would there be a time, a deadline, a period of mourning to respect before starting a new story after a separation?
Should we make a clean sweep of the past and heal any wounds to really have both feet anchored in new history?
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Because if his name sounds like such, the breakup is not a cut as clear as we imagine.
If we slam the door on the couple when leaving, we also take some emotional baggage along;
ours and those left by the ex.
And some, more cumbersome than others, can sometimes slow down the start of a new relationship, without being always aware of it.
A time for sorrow and resentment
At the risk of breaking down an open door, let's remember that in a breakup, one is always more in agreement than the other.
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For the one who initiates it, the separation results from a decision which has meaning for oneself and not necessarily for the other: different values, declining feelings
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