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"Wedding": Itamar and Karin proved that sex is not everything | Israel today

2021-11-28T10:23:22.540Z


The last couple made the decision, and came to different conclusions after a few months • Nitzo and Mano discovered that a chance should be given, and Shai and Hadas had to cut at first • These are our conclusions from "Wedding at First Sight"


The fourth season of "Wedding at First Sight" has come to an end.

Here are some more lessons we have learned from her and compiled for you, the singles.

When you give a real opportunity to connect - you gain

In an age of multitasking and increasing FOMO (fear of missing out) people forget to give a real opportunity to connect.

The same thing happened to Mano and Nitzan who knew Tinder.

Mano gave up too quickly or did not call or he did anything at all - and as a result the potential was missed.

Then they both came to the wedding, the plan that was created for exactly this reason: so that two people in a hurry to flip on would stop the chase for a moment and focus on one potential option.

They focused, filtered noises, committed to the process and went out with a relationship (at least for several months since it is not yet clear whether the two are trying to get back together or not).

Worth giving a chance.

Nitzan and Mano, Photo: Keshet 12

What can be learned from this?

That sometimes when you fail at Tinder you succeed in getting married.

We learned that in the case of Mano and Nitzan it paid off to give a chance.

When we give a chance and truly know, we learn to know the person in front of us and do not let the first impression dictate to us.

From one or two dates do not really know someone, should give the other side more time, just as we can not bring all the good sides we have built on one or two dates.

Attraction is a necessary condition for a relationship

There was no mutual attraction between Shai and Hadas.

More than that, Hadas felt rejected.

Chemistry and attraction are necessary conditions for the formation of a relationship, which is why a relationship could never grow between them.

No "touch diet" would turn the creators between them, and no counseling from a psychologist would do any magic.

If it is not at the base - it will also not come later, and will not help a thousand more touch drills.

This relationship was not.

Shai and Hadas, Photo: Keshet 12

This couple had to separate after two weeks, and not after a month and a half.

Every minute they were together was a suffering for them and the viewers alike.

It is jarring that psychologists who claim to be experts in the field have left them in power only because of rating tastes.

It was good that Shai finally realized that he had nothing to gain from it and decided to end the relationship between them, it's a pity he did not understand this before.

Even if attraction is a necessary condition, it is not enough

Unlike Silk and Myrtle, in the case of Karin and Itamar there was an attraction, but there it ended.

A relationship cannot last if it is based solely on sex.

From this, one can learn that chemistry and attraction are necessary conditions for a relationship and can be a good start, but it is not enough.

There was no match between Hadas and Shai and Karin and Itamar.

One can say that the experts are to blame and one can say that it is a question of life.

Just as Karin diagnosed her relationship with Itamar in one of the episodes: on paper we fit, but the paper is not enough.

Mano and Nitzan had an initial attraction and had a basis for adjustment.

They could not find out on Tinder until after they had given a real chance to a relationship.

To what extent to give the relationship a chance, and when to stop?

As mentioned, Mano and Nitzan gave a real chance to the relationship and they won, Shai and Hadas gave a chance and failed to create a relationship and Karin and Itamar gave a chance but separated.

So when is it right to give a chance and when to give up?

It is right to give up when there is no attraction and when there is no real potential for the success of the relationship.

Sometimes it is noticeable from the beginning, as with Hadas and Shai, and sometimes it takes time and you have to go a bit along the way to understand that there is no match like with Karin and Itamar or Danny and Shani.

Tried everything.

Karin, Photo: Keshet 12

Sometimes it's worth giving another chance just to realize it's not "it".

Just like Karin said in one of her last interviews, she wanted to give a real chance and be whole with herself even if it did not work out, knowing that for her part she had tried everything.

Closing the circle is very important to continue the process with ourselves in search of a new relationship.

Even Tinder manages to match more couples

With the end of the fourth season of "Wedding" we learned that statistically even Tinder's success is higher in creating a relationship, and yet, what is beautiful about "Wedding" is that one can learn from the contestants' coping.

Each viewer can identify and connect with one of the participants and see themselves in a similar situation.

And that's what's beautiful about the show and attracts so many viewers.

Come on, when will the fifth season air?

The author is the author of the practical guide to creating a relationship: "From all my educational educators" - all the secrets you have never been told to create a relationship

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