Leaving social networks or putting a lock on the Twitter account is a common practice in recent times.
Both are reactions of varying degrees to stress, pressure, attacks, threats, or harassment that takes place on social media.
The journalist Begoña Gómez Urzáiz told it in these pages in the report entitled
Misogynistic abuse on Twitter leads women to "put on" the padlock
.
María López Villodres gave her testimony in S Moda about the harassment that she suffered and the writer Lucía Lijtmaer develops it in her book
Offendiditos
(Ed. Anagrama). Of course, this does not only happen to women, but it does so more frequently and more violently. 20% of women between the ages of 18 and 29 have suffered sexist cyber violence. The most striking cases transcend the networks to reach the news. The death threats to Candela Peña's son, the death threats to sports journalists, the abandonment of political networks such as Ada Colau, journalists, harassed tweeters.
There are much lighter and more widespread versions: mute direct messages, for example, when replies to a tweet get too heavy. On Monday a user asked what was the strangest row that had been thrown at them on Twitter. The answers give an idea of why one of those fights can arise. I give you a hint: for everything. There were responses in a humorous tone, like that of a user who told this: "I was told about the dead by someone who wanted to explain opiates to me and I told him I was an anesthetist, Hulio." There are more harsh ones, although they are also counted in a light tone: “When I told a man that the text that he had put could hardly be the 180 azora of the Qur'an because the Qur'an has 114 azoras (chapters). They called me fuckers and wanted some men to rape me ”.
What is the strangest row that you have been thrown on Twitter?
Me for not following more people than following me.
- Genko (Miguel) (@Genko) January 3, 2022
Twitter works by the variable reward system.
When we see a notification we cannot avoid clicking on it.
The more we tweet, the more chances there are that this action will generate a reaction, and the more interactions and more action, the more Twitter favors us, that is why perseverance is essential to succeed in the social network.
That is why stopping tweeting also has its risks, and not only for the ego, as some disbelievers will think.
Let's not forget that Twitter is for many a work tool that fulfills promotion,
networking
and portfolio functions.
The writer María Sánchez wrote a tweet on Monday that summarizes the fatigue of some users: "The number of times I am going to write something here and then I say" why "and in the end nothing."
It is a simple but irrefutable argument.
So that.
Stop tweeting so you don't have to face a row or worse.
the number of times that I am going to write something here and then I say "why" and in the end nothing 🙃
- maría sánchez (@MariaMercromina) January 3, 2022
There are also those who abandon Twitter or use the padlock due to the consequences of other tweets from the distant past, with their own context and their own subtext, which no longer represent them.
It just happened (it doesn't matter when you read this).
Cancellation culture does not always distinguish between what it cancels and sometimes its methods are quite similar to those of its cancellers.
The writer Joan Didion, who died on December 23, in her essay entitled
Why I write
, said: “It is undeniable that putting words on paper is the tactic of a secret stalker, an invasion, an imposition of sensitivity of the writer in the most private space of the reader ”.
It has nothing to do with Twitter, I know.
But when I imagine the notifications flashing, one after another, the fear of opening them, the anxiety of knowing they are there, the desire to answer, the desire not to, delete the account, those words come to mind.
I visualize those tweets that we do not tweet, and what is worse, those that we do, and I think of that secret stalker and that we always think that the
bullies
are others.
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