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A bride filed for divorce the day after her wedding - because the groom pushed her head into the cake
A woman demanded a divorce from her husband only one day after she married him, after she asked him not to throw the cake in front of her in the best tradition - and he did so anyway.
Surprisingly (or not), a relationship counselor advised her not to listen to her family to continue the divorce
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21/02/2022
21/02/2022
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The groom's violent reaction to the bride's joke (@ kelsboyd3)
In the video - another groom who went too far with the cake
The wedding day is supposed to be the happiest day in the life of any bride, so if the groom manages to ruin it - this is probably a justifiable reason for a tough quarrel.
However, one bride said that her husband's rude act at the wedding not only caused her to quarrel with him - but also to demand a divorce from him, just a few hours after the wedding.
In Slate Magazine's Prudence Advice column, the bride - whose fictitious name was "give it to February" - provided her reasons why she wanted to divorce her new husband so quickly.
The bride said the two got married just before Christmas and she hopes to divorce - or cancel the marriage - by the end of February.
She wrote of the humiliation she went through on her wedding day: "I was never interested in getting married, but I did not object to it. When my boyfriend proposed to me in 2020, we decided to go for it. Each of us took on about half the responsibility for organizing the wedding, but I think I was It makes a lot of sense when it came to compromises, especially when he asked me to compromise, "she wrote.
Her only request from the groom regarding their wedding day, she claims, was not to throw the cake on her face.
He did not.
At least not in that order.
She wrote: "My only request was that he not spread the cake inside me. Being a reasonable person who knows me well, he did not do that. Instead, he grabbed me by the back of the head and pushed my head into the cake. It was designed because the cake Destroyed - and he had a stockpile of cupcakes as a backup. "
At that moment she told him it was over between them and left the event.
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During the holidays she said friends and family told her she should "give him a second chance" and that she was "exaggerating".
She added: "I stand behind my decision. The thing is, during the holidays everyone gathered to tell me I should give him a second chance. They say I exaggerated. I'm very claustrophobic because of a car accident I had years ago - and I panicked when he pushed my head into the cake and held it. Inside, "she said," they also keep telling me that I love him - even though at the moment I do not feel it at all - and that he loves me, and that means not giving up the first hurdle. I do not want to stay, but everyone tells me yes. They are so "I'm sure I'm making a terrible mistake - I'm wondering if they'm right."
What should she do?
Forgive him
Throw it away
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While some of you might think that the bride's reaction is definitely exaggerated, relationship counselor Jenny Desmond-Harris actually encouraged the bride to continue with the divorce proceedings since his act was a "red flag."
She wrote in response: "Everyone is sure you are making a mistake, but they are not the ones who should wake up every day with a man whose behavior takes the feeling towards him so massively. It's you, so you should only listen to yourself. Write down which of your loved ones probably does not appreciate your happiness - And continue with your divorce. "
The post was later shared on Reddit's Wedding Shaming forum, where people were left stunned by the groom's actions.
One wrote in response: "It's not even a cute stain of cake on the nose. He slammed her head into it and humiliated her. It's horrible," and another added: "Not only did he not respect the only limit she set for him, he found the worst and most aggressive way. "That it can be violated. Is this a reason for divorce? I do not know, but it is certainly not something to be forgiven easily."
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