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New and sexy trend - men who demand a refund for an unsuccessful date
A new and rather ugly trend is emerging in the dating world.
And this time in the confession group TLV tells a woman about the guy who demanded that she return the money to him on the date because they were unable to realize the relationship to his satisfaction.
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06/03/2022
06/03/2022
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In the "TLV Confessions"
group
where confessions can be posted anonymously, very controversial issues can sometimes arise.
Last week, there was a fascinating discussion about the unfaithful husband and the responsibility of the women who collaborated with him, about a woman who told of a rape she went through in her youth that caused her to become a slave in her significant relationship.
Every time such a confession arises, the painful truth becomes clear, and it is - that these women are not alone.
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This time we will discover a tier from the world of dating, a new trend if you will, and not a particularly positive trend.
A woman who went out with someone from Tinder and moved on, was asked by him to return to him the money he "spent" on her on a date.
The reactions are divided to those who resent the request to return the money, and on the other hand there are those who claim that on the first date they do not order food for hundreds of shekels, but spend modestly, on a drink or two .. Of course there are those who say equality should be mutual and start dating?
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Here she is still stunned, in the original post
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Here she is already after she has had time to digest
It seems that the exact matter worthy of discussion here is
a.
Expectation of a particular consideration or transaction of exchange of goods that is not communicated.
And.
Violent, extortionate, belligerent, threatening, belittling and degrading conduct that does not harm the way to achieve the goal as a result of a damaged ego following rejection after a meeting.
The two sections are closely related to the way a man perceives and treats a woman, the expectation of her and her service role in relation to him and the lack of her right to refuse or reject him.
To all the grammarians: the total meeting was about 250 shekels, I wanted to give him money back, because I was the one who consumed most of the amount, I invited him to a friends dinner at my house after the meeting (which costs much more than the amount if you have fun and accounts, less me) I mentioned that he also wants to give him money back in the same class.
He suggested that we go to a restaurant on another occasion - we did not get to go, or meet again because of his business and the timing between us.
When he offered to go to the sea and asked me to introduce his family to more girls while commenting out of place and expressed a desire to meet with me alone and not in a public place or near people in a way that was disrespectful, strange and unpleasant, I commented and when he did not let go and it became annoying - I blocked.
After the block he sent me messages from another source on Pace, to return the money to him, I immediately agreed.
After I returned the money he continued to send me hurt ego messages such as "Who are you anyway" "Who wants you" "Wait wait" "You fell for the wrong guy" and other beautiful low pearls and reports.
I announced that if he continued, a complaint would be filed with the police.
Most of the time I meet amazing, generous and good guys on another date recently, I brought expensive wine and strawberries and a date after that I ordered ice cream and we shared a taxi so do not cry for me about deprivation and inequality.
It is not possible to take garbage in person, only to the uterus, which is why I intended the transfer.
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The reactions
Without favors
all the respect you gave him the money and at the same time your self-respect.
It shows you are a good girl with values.
You do not need favors from him or anyone else.
In general, it is recommended on a first date to order something symbolic (coffee) and thus avoid this embarrassment.
On a first date they come to meet and not eat dinner.
1930s
Wow to all the losers here in the thread that goes down on it - if it seems to you that it makes an impression or gives you some rights as if you paid for a free monthly subscription, you live in a movie from the 30s.
Do not offer to pay if it does not come from a clean and unpretentious place.
A girl who comes to know you and not your wallet, will not be impressed by this gesture nor is there a reason.
And if you have already paid, and after the relationship has not continued you asked for money back, a loser takes you out at unbearable levels, and only shows that this "gesture" was a show in a desperate attempt to buy more bonus points and leave "Gentleman".
Connection first of all, even before a platinum credit card.
Work on your personality and you will not have to wave gestures from the previous century.
Feminism
yesterday was Women's Day.
Equality should be reciprocal in every direction.
If you work and finance yourself, why not pay for yourself on a first date in advance?
Half and half
One such had to ask to share the account.
But he did not do it because he expected a return, so instead of learning lessons and realizing that he probably had to spend the money on an escort girl, he asked for a refund.
Rag
calm
down What are you upset about?
The women were happy to follow the feminist dumb line that every "gentlemanly" male gesture turns the woman into a consumer product and "belittles" (sick of that dumb expression) women.
If all I give is a product, that's how men will treat you.
Boomers
I thought this is a group of boomers per second, what comments are reported and what childish approach to humiliate through Facebook, its right to ask for your right to refuse as you have the right to reject it
What do you think?
She ate too much
A first date should be cheap
First date is always half and half
He is pathetic
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