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"I slept with 400 men, I'm not g ***. Just love sex"
While a man with multiple sexual partners is considered successful and possessed, women who possess the same number of partners will be considered cheap, self-destructive, and / or "defective goods."
This anonymous confession and the responses to it prove that we have much more to go on
Anat Nissani
21/03/2022
21/03/2022
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In the "TLV Confessions"
group ,
where confessions can be published anonymously, we all open a window to the world that usually remains between ourselves, and sometimes these confessions overwhelm important and controversial issues.
Do you remember the confession "I found out my husband penetrated me without my knowledge when I slept", or the treacherous husband of another, and you will probably also connect to the following shaking confession:
"So I slept with 400 men, no I'm not g ***. I just love sex. To what extent do you think it is a factor to share with my future husband in this piece of information? ".
So wrote Anonymous, and out of the thousands of responses this question has received, we have brought you the most interesting and also some that I wish we would not have read.
But let's start with what you think about the subject:
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To tell or not to tell?
No.
400 it's scary
Must tell, it's too significant to hide
I do not see a problem here with any option
The question is not whether to tell or not, but why 400?
The reactions
You need a very special man to be able to contain this number, yes yes also in 2022 the question with how much would you be asked (surprisingly even after age 30), and the responses to women are as you read here (even if you were writing 10 you would get in your head) on the other hand If a man were to tell me that he slept with 400 women it would also not really be acceptable to me because I come from a more conservative place.
In short, a special and liberal man with a great sexual desire, like you have, does not believe in lying or distorting reality, it's a big part of who you are, so I do not know if I would flaunt it, but yes there is nothing to lie / scribble / distort.
When the moment comes - speak.
Successfully
You understand that there is no symmetry.
Right?
A man, no matter how beautiful, talented, smart, etc., will have to invest and meet high standards in order to sleep with someone.
Will have to take her to a restaurant, talk nicely, like, laugh, pay the bill and only then maybe she will sleep with him, and if she does go you will know after a date.
A girl on the other hand, can be a little more beautiful than a monkey, be neglected, stupid and boring, she just has to declare that she wants sex and will very quickly find someone to sleep with.
This is the reason of course that for every hundred thousand female prostitutes there is one male prostitute.
Hence and accordingly society perceives a man who slept with 400 compared to a woman who slept with 400.
A person who judges you based on how much you enjoyed your life until you met him, probably not the person you wish to end your life with.
So should I tell?
Yes, unequivocally.
This is the best filter you will get for a man's quality and how up to date he is with the year he is in, or is stuck in the last century
The day the average Israeli man realizes that he is shooting himself in the foot when, on the one hand, he cries that the Israelis are hard and do not "give" and on the other hand make them a slamming slat and an account of what they are doing, it will be easier for both sexes.
Judging by the silly and offensive answers here, on both sides, you probably should not tell that people are pretty dumb.
I have no problem with the number.
So 400. And if it was 100?
200?
Was there a difference?
As for me, if my wife, who lives and comes, will tell me that lying with 400 I will ask her every night a bedtime story
Sounds tiring.
Very.
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The unfortunate reactions that exist
Sometimes it's better to move to a city.
Fadiha walking around the street when half the men have a hard time recognizing you on the street with clothes ...
The answer is simple, if you were to tell me that on a date.
I would smile, tell you go girl and become number 401. The next day blocks you.
You're not material beyond that.
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A key that opens a lot of doors is a master, a lock that is opened by a lot of keys is a broken lock.
Are you serious, do you really think it sounds like a normal or healthy thing for you to sleep with so many men?
How about a little respect for her body a little to keep it and not turn it into a sex doll
Yes in a man this would have been acceptable to me
A woman needs to take much more care of her body and her dignity
Do not know what to tell you hear… that it does not make you a bad person is for sure.
But have you ever heard of Micho buying a car with high mileage because the car likes to drive?
Hope you understood my point
Say you've had sex for 20 years, which is a thousand weeks.
That means changing a man every two and a half weeks, with no stops for relationships.
With relationships it's a new man every week.
There is no doubt that this is a sign of a quality, stable girl who knows how to reject gratifications, and control herself, that is, all the qualities of a girl for a wedding.
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