Screenshot (Photo: New Love Rainbow 12)

The rubber band said its word and blessed are we that we got rid of it

The penultimate decision chapter in New Love ends in heartbreak - Michael separates from the other, and disappoints us all.

Ophir Sagarsky reminds us to believe in men who do not recommend themselves in the first place, and concludes a sad chapter

Ofir Sagarsky

09/05/2022

09/05/2022

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We are on the verge of another decision day, and our three married women are preparing for the decision, all three say they are undecided but are actually afraid to say that they are afraid of being rejected themselves.

Because this time, it is clear that the real choice is in the hands of men, no matter what the format.

This is how it is, even strong women sometimes want more than they want.

In fact, it happens to them often.

But before we get there, a little Watsu, Passive Aggressive and raising one sour glass in the heart.

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Suture Sublet (Photo: Screenshot, New Love Rainbow 12)

Al can not feel completely Israeli, because she is the only one who understood how to screw up the system.

She has long since given up on this silly concept of dating, and stays to sew sublets and snacks at the expense of production.

I feel that if "New Love" was a military system, Al is the Jobnik who no one is sure what her role is, but her IDF also does not really allow her to be given a real one. Does not perform, and this time, to knock out a presence, brought her to meet the psychologists, even they can no longer hide the boredom through the tired nod. Again she says the real process here is hers with herself, and with all the affection, not for that we came together. Over this melancholy French film, and we'll get straight to the point.

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Dana and Dor

Closed on itself (Photo: Screenshot, New Love Rainbow 12)

Dana claims that it is going to be difficult for her to make a decision, but this thought quickly gives way to staring at the tefillin-laying generation, a Jonah Wallach hammer that was discovered in the previous episode. But it's all a cover story for the real challenge - she wants it, and not sure how much it is her

. Passing as relatively authentic to a woman who is at any given moment on first dates, so I opened a survey for my ticktock followers.Yes, it was now an almost self-published post like that of the Bay-Mei episode.I asked followers if they think Dana is real or not, why her matchmakers perceive her As fake, and if it is indeed so - what does it mean, and what exactly does it hide.

From an overall survey, about 70% claimed that Dana is stunning and everyone is zero, and it's hard for people to get a strong woman, but well, that's my followers, just give them a model of a strong woman with jargon from the gay world.

About 20% claimed that Dana's manners suck from American culture, which Israelis find difficult to digest - but this is indeed who it is.

The remaining ten percent were divided between claiming she was completely pike and pretending to have self-confidence while she had none at all, and people saying that if two dates told her that, it was probably true.

And I argue that self-confidence is a dynamic value, a swing, a downward and upward curve and so on.

I also support Rihanna's teaching that if there is no self-confidence it is better to fake it, and in fact, we all fake to varying degrees and depending on the situation.

One only needs to know to forge well, and that is already up for debate.

As for Dana, all I can contribute to the discussion is that I saw her this week by chance, at a club that is very Dana, and she was very Dana within it.

And also beautiful to die for.

What do I care what is plastic, one might think that people who like "natural beauty" also like the disadvantages contained in it.

Depending on her character, which is completely consistent, if you ask me, Dana of course has a tattoo of the caption "Family First".

Although we have not heard a single word about her family in this show, but I can believe that 17 year old Dana totally believed in it, and a question has obscured her values ​​to this day.

She looks at Dor as someone who is meant to recharge the tattoo with a new meaning, and emerges from it what she and the experts call "another Dana": giggling, shy, embarrassed.

This exposure of hers could have been lovely if she had responded with a similar response from the other side, but Dor does not do much other than try punches on her.

When they reach the bridge of wishes, Dana creates a wish in her heart.

She will not reveal to a generation, but to an entire country yes: "mating."

Shocking.

Against the background of this magic they sit down for a picnic, an activity that Dana, in my opinion, would not have happily jumped on with any man.

She is a girl of sitting on a chair, and preferably tall.

"For the life of me, what will we drink?", She asks, a question that is usually answered with one-word aspirations and desirable "

Dor's answer: "For a life of process, that everyone knew to know himself and develop himself, in case it goes on."

By the end of the trial, Dana had already gone through a whole process and also knew and developed herself enough to ask why he remained single for so long.

More precisely, six years, the number of the devil as Mariana knows.

To his answer, of course, at this time he developed himself.

But Dana knows that six-year-old internal processes are a privilege for those who lack a biological clock, and goes straight to the point: "What is it like to be together for yourself?".

He does not know what to say, but emits everything without meaning to.

First association: "contain each other", followed by: "challenge".

Both are negative.

Only then does the word "fun" arrive, which also ultimately expresses a fear of commitment rather than enthusiasm for a relationship.

Dana is worried, and rightly so.

In the evening, she makes the "call."

"I'm not so closed on the decision," she tries to stress Dor a bit, but Dor is not confused.

"You need to shut up," he cuts.

"I'm not closed."

"Close."

Well, is it possible for a second to say goodbye to you without feedback?

His commander's pose starts to get on my nerves, he reminds me of the first partners I had, who are forever besieged in my memory as "the battalion commander and the battalion commander".

These are people who give instructions even in an emotional and charged situation, and especially in such a situation, in order to avoid at all costs being caught in their weakness.

Such was an era, and such a generation is also revealed.

They will both burden you with "constructive criticism" before giving you one proper compliment, and then also complaining that you do not know how to "face the truth", as if they have some ownership of it.

Dana sends Dor on his way, but then comes back to her - it turns out she made him crazy, and despite everything, she leaves.

"I want you more with emotion," she directs, regaining a false sense of control over the situation, while Dor is generally disappointed that his farewell speech has now gone to waste.

Mariana and Sergei

Doing something fun (Photo: Screenshot, New Love Rainbow 12)

Sergei is also far from showing enthusiasm, but Mariana is eager to extract from him even a faint hint of the matter, even if it will require moderate physical pressure.

She puts the battle decision status on the table, but it doesn't seem to move him at all.

"I just released it," Sergei declares.

"Everything is fine," Mariana shoots the same aggressive passive that has accompanied her since the beginning of their relationship, and encounters time and time again an indifference that only fuels her drama.

To avoid discussion, Sergei offers as usual "do something fun", a sophisticated manipulation about as read, "Here, bird!", Point to the sky and escape.

"Sea of ​​temptations, sea of ​​temptations, sea," Mariana complains on the shores of Tel Aviv, alluding as usual.

Experts claim that neither she nor Sergei reveal what is on their minds, and seemingly, this is true.

She is passive-aggressive, he is naive, but if they listen between the lines - they both understand exactly what the other side is telling them.

It is a total of one message, uniform and clear per person.

Mariana's broken record says, "I'm in your business, say you do too," and Sergei's broken record says, "I do not."

On this romantic opportunity, Mariana once again floods the issue of Tel Aviv, a maximum of one hour by train, but too long in relation to Sergei's desire.

This conversation, too, is too long for him, for for him a turnover of more than four words in a row is an extreme challenge to the brain.

"How we like to dig, it's something," he gracefully sums up the depths of Mariana's soul.

On their return home, Mariana continues to yell at Marianit, "Okay, there are better days and less good ones."

In the local language: "Biaset".

Sergei continues to make her think that it is only she who is distant, shirking responsibility for the atmosphere that prevails between them.

It's not clear why she was so fucked up on him.

He is silent, sucks, heavy.

Boring.

So far, at least from what he himself brings to the relationship, I find nothing in him other than the magic Mariana has put on him based on a kiss in the fountain from two decades ago.

The conversation that reopens with the experts, he repulsed again with the vague claim, "I do not want to hurt her."

Mariana shrinks, but the experts are the ones who finally reveal the stick: it's not really a concern for Mariana, it's a concern for himself and paving an escape route.

Every time Sergei says he does not want to hurt Mariana - he hurts her more and more.

In general, it's time to eradicate "I do not want to hurt you" completely over "our relationship where" conversations.

If you stated that you "do not want to hurt", it's a sign that this is exactly what you're going to do now.

Basically, the request not to hurt is a request since to hurt, just not to be judged on it.

You deprive the other side of its right to be hurt and angry, and so paradoxically, out of a desire to get out of order - you came out as selfish as possible.

And in short, if you want to break up, you will break up already.

You ate your head.

But Sergei is not yet ripe to say goodbye to Mariana, because he is unable to get out of the bad guy, and continues to make excuses for external reasons why this relationship is impossible.

"It's hard not to be closed on you," Mariana shares with initial frankness.

"insulting".

Sergei continues to be silent, which makes the decision - to leave him for another three days.

He is still prevented from expressing his opinion on the matter.

Shani and Michael

You're amazing, but ... (Photo: Screenshot, New Love Rainbow 12)

Michael has been in two days of films of pressure from the relationship.

He and Shani passed the producer, and as expected, he loses interest.

Decreases from 100 to 0.

Shani realizes exactly what he is going through and decides to pamper him with a watsu water treatment, an activity that is perhaps only one degree of suffocation before marriage.

Along the way, she asks him to develop his feelings.

Michael also pulls out the "I do not want to hurt you" card, he also hides a lack of interest under a huge tangle of words.

Shani, who does not fall into these pranks, asks him to put aside the responsibility for her choices - she is responsible for them enough herself - and talk about himself.

Michael describes himself as an angel and a devil, two sides that one probably wants love, and the other - to fuck in piles, a lifestyle that is not reflected in ancestral joints.

He's not sure he could make the "necessary concessions," he said, but he didn't go into any concrete concessions, because at this point it didn't really matter - he got off.

He will not give up anything for her.

Silence falls on him again, and Shani remains confused.

Maybe the Watsu will get the solutions.

"I ordered a gift at Bey-Me" she answers no one's question, a second before the embarrassed hostess secretes them from her to the treatment pool.

Michael and the ugly star tattoos in our stomachs move on the water, but unlike the other, who is carried free as a mermaid, Michael feels that the caring hands control him, holding him tightly.

"Suddenly I realized this relationship is not my problem," Sherlock diagnoses himself in astonishment, "but me. My fear of commitment."

He frees himself from the binding hands of the therapist, and takes out all his frustration on Shani, who is merely trying to be interested in what he is going through.

"What's hard to understand? I explained to you twice!", He barks.

I believe Michael that he really hates Watsu, but above all, he hates intimacy, and Shani is unfortunately currently included in the fire area.

Shani knows what I'm going to say now, and therefore, I am not handing it over to her, but to anyone who has ever fallen into Shani's box: it's really, really really, not your fault.

The rubber band said it all (Photo: screenshot, New Love Rainbow 12)

To the cameras, Michael tells himself that he is struggling not to break up with Shani, while Shani takes comfort in Al's arms.

"I can not with him, every second he turns over," she sighs.

"He wants to see you not give up on him," advises El, a guru and role model in the relationship, a second before Michael goes to give up two altogether.

The moment of decision comes, and Michael sits in his famous annoyance sitting while Shani tries to have a mature conversation about the insult she has suffered.

"The most amazing woman I have ever known in my life," Michael opens with words that herald the arrival of "mourning."

"As soon as I see emotion from a person I close. Today I am in minus 20. Today I understand that it is me, this is my problem."

"Hmm," nods Shani in front of him as a behavioral science researcher, trying in vain to hide the fork that had just been stuck in her chest and turned twice.

Again, like Sergei, Michael "does not want to hurt", so hurts her, gets up and goes.

"I'm glad I knew you, I'm sure we'll be heard outside," Michael errs.

"You're like all men," she cuts sharply.

"Want to be there and not be there. Impossible."

Mike Drop.

This breakup makes me completely re-evaluate Shani.

She saw everything.

She knew everything.

He's really a small, scared kid, not ready for a relationship.

And above all - Tina's rubber band did indeed justify the mythical horror, because here, today they are together.

Shani's intuitions were there, but the environment convinced her to go against them, and perhaps the heart as well.

Who among us has not experienced this?

Second in crisis now, but the least we can derive from it is a positive lesson, as the trip to Poland has taught us.

And the most important lesson we need to learn from this saga, is to always listen to what people are saying about themselves.

Usually, the answer is there.

Not even under the nose, but directly opposite.

If he tells you he's going down as fast as he's going up, believe him.

It may change, most likely not.

There is no need to strive to market people better than they market themselves, or to beautify what they insist on presenting in an ugly way.

Too bad for your time.

In the next chapter: a non-Jew who is bothered by God is matched with God, because no research work is invested in the candidates;

Dana continues to look for an emotion that is not;

Shani says good morning to someone;

And Mariana continues to imagine a relationship.

Good luck to everyone!

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