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Stole me semen, and did not let me be in touch with my child

This week in the group "Confessions TLV" came up a shaky post of a man claiming that his semen was stolen by a girl he dated.

He already has a girlfriend and almost a year has passed since they broke up, but the results still ruined his life

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18/05/2022

18/05/2022

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Our regular confessional group bombarded with another confession that you must read.

Here is what he said:

Sperm theft - the post

About a year and a half ago I was in a 3 month relationship with someone, as a guy who fears sexually transmitted diseases no less than pregnancy we initially only slept with a condom, although she made it clear that she takes pills regularly and I have nothing to fear.

After something like a month I felt safe enough to take off the condom and we slept without it and all this in the clear knowledge that she was taking pregnancy pills .. 3 months later she suddenly disappeared and after a few messages I sent her she wrote me that she started dating another guy and wished me good luck.

I was pretty much in the market for it, I deleted it from every possible platform and moved on.

A friend of mine recently told me that he saw her in a cafe and that she had a child and that he looked like me in a small way.

At first I was not excited about it, but out of curiosity I looked at her Facebook and the way I saw the boy I fell in love.

I have pictures of my baby and he really looks like me one by one, I searched for his dad on her Facebook and tried to search for previous relationships and found nothing, so I decided to ask a mutual friend of mine and one of her friends to check out who the dad is.

From there I realized that there is no father in the picture and her friend thought the child was donating sperm.

I could not relax, I found a picture from the birth and started calculating 9 months back from the moment of birth and it fell on the period we were together, my body started shaking and I tried to get it but she hung up in my face when I told her it was me and blocked me, I found myself like a stalker waiting for her at her office Until I caught her.

I asked her about the boy and she denied, told me I was mentally ill and threatened to call security so I just went and turned to my sister who is a lawyer.

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I will not elaborate on the whole procedure and issuing the paternity order but bottom line, I have a child and I am in front of her in another legal proceeding just so I can be a part of my child's world.

The whole legal section is delusional because I am his father and I want to take responsibility for this child and raise him, also why prevent the child from growing up with a father figure by his side ??

What does she care about getting help and alimony ???

There is also no justifiable reason for this.

I'm not an alcoholic / drugged, not violent, I'm a programmer with a good job, I'm not a kid and I know I can be a good dad.

Since that discovery my life was turned upside down, a moment ago I was a 31 year old man with an amazing company, working in high tech, energetic, ambitious who is just trying to build life in the best way for the moment I am ready to start a family and today I became a toolbreaker.

I am constantly nervous, I have outbursts of anger at work, I do not sleep well, can not concentrate, my girlfriend is already hard with me and in general she is not enthusiastic about the idea that I have a child but what can I already do?

The feeling that my sperm was stolen is horrible, even worse that I have a child I do not know and I love him even though I did not even hold him and I am dying to be with him.

I wrote the confession because I'm going crazy and I had to unload, but for all the men here - learn lessons.

Comments are divided:

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Agree - stealing semen for everything

• Classic sperm theft.

  Some such stories came to me, awful!

  She will keep the child away from you and claim alimony and from the point of view of the Family Court in the dark state of Israel you are obligated to pay her.

  Women from the most inferior breed who are looking to get pregnant without medical procedures and also get an ATM on the go.

  This phenomenon is much broader than one might think and it will intensify in light of the fact that more of us remain single until old age.

  I'm sorry you fell for her.

  Good luck in the fight.

• Unfortunately for all men - no.

  Really not uncommon.

  The day I wrote about this post I got dozens of stories, and it's just one post.

  There are a lot of people with a child who steals semen whose immediate environment is not even aware of it.

• Believe me, there is reason to fear.

• Very sad.

  Hope all the men reading this will learn an important lesson.

  As of this moment, even though it's a blatantly immoral thing !!!!

  The law does not recognize an offense called "sperm theft."

  The responsibility for contraception rests with a man no less than the woman, no matter what she has stated to you.

  Good luck with your rights claims

• Listen, the fact that you went after a paternity test shows that you're a man.

  Lucky of the child to have a father like you and poor to have a mother like her.

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Mistake, but not sperm theft

• what what what?

  It's about the opposite story of stealing semen ... she tries to run away from the father and not demand money from him, it sounds like she chose she did not want him to be in her life.

  There is indeed some immorality here but overall a choice that one can try to identify with.

  A girl who got pregnant from a guy she would not want to spend the rest of her life with and chose not to go through an abortion process which is a controversial process, and also, chose to do it all alone and not involve a person she barely knows for the rest of her life.

  Indeed not 100% moral but one can try to understand.

  Doubtful and sad choices of a cowardly and immature girl, but not a pre-planning of lies and deception.

  But an escape from problems and a lack of coping.

• This is not sperm theft because pills also have a chance of getting pregnant.

  Enough that there is one percent since, no one can claim here about sperm theft and you did not know there was a chance of pregnancy.

• This whole story sounds weird to me ... There are definitely some women who steal sperm, but if you went out for 3 months and everything was good and beautiful why disappear after getting pregnant?

  And why refuse any help, even minimal, from someone who is supposed to be the father of her child?

  Hope for the good news (and for the answers you definitely deserve)

• Very sad, she made a selfish and disgusting choice not to tell you.

  But one thing is not - stealing semen.

  You were aware that you are without a condom and that is your part of responsibility.

  Well done for your war to see the kid, I know opposite stories too closely

• I know quite a few cases of girls getting pregnant on pills or on a device and zero cases of girls stealing semen from someone, so the story I read is about a girl who got pregnant unplanned and ran away and made bad choices after that

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