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You're right: it's sexy to look like "men want to fuck you"

The current season of Big Brother is already providing scandals - and this time the controversial model Diane explains that "sexy" is the one men want to fuck her - technically she's right, but Jenny Danson has a "little" addition

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19/06/2022

19/06/2022

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I have a lot of compassion for Diane.

I know compassion is not the word most people use about this girl who looks like Karin on 2.0 and speaks commonplace, but from the first moment I saw her ID, where she tried so hard to come out the super cool and very beautiful girl who spins the world on the little finger, everything What I wanted was to hug her.

Maybe because it reminds me a bit of myself at that age - albeit 20 or so inches less and without the look that people wanted to photograph and put in commercials, but I know this desire to show that you know and understand, that you have gone through a trillion things in life despite your young age so you demand respect.

It characterizes a lot of 20s and a bit girls who want to devour the world but do not really know how, so they use tools like arrogance and excessive enthusiasm of themselves.

The thing is that no matter how much you go through and how much life experience you have, it will usually take either 3 or 30 strong heads from the universe for you to really get to where you really become a woman who is comfortable in her skin, and then you also realize that such a woman does not really need all the paperwork and poses. .

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That's why I'm probably slipping her on a whole lot of completely stupid exits - from the fact that she announced that for her Talia is "non-existent" to the forced condescension that makes people hate her so much but in my eyes (and in Ofek's, which I analyzed accurately if you ask me) comes from insecurity And a desire to be seen and respected.

This is also why I can understand why it is important for her to make big, pompous statements that are also not "socially acceptable" - she probably feels she must speak differently and be cooler than everyone else to prove how important she is.

So she told Nathaniel that she thought the ideal of beauty was to look like "men want to fuck you" - and explained that "it really does not matter thinness, sex comes from within" she even gave as an example her friend, a sexy plus size model, and closed the issue In that what matters is mostly "boobs, hair, ass".

Technically she's right - to be sexy is to be a woman that other people will want to have sex with, that is, in other words, a woman that men (or women, or any other man who loves women, but let's not shrink for talkbacks) will want to ***.

And what do men usually want to get ***?

Boobs, ass, hair and everything that holds them together, well done - 5 points for Diane.

The problem with this statement is not its unwillingness, but the fact that there is no understanding behind it that being sexy may be nice, but really not enough to maintain deep relationships, self-esteem, or self-image.

Just like the rest of the stuff that comes out of Diane's mouth, it's mostly flat and shallow.

True, sexiness comes from within and sexiness is relatively easy to achieve (ask Diana and Ilana who probably look sexy even when they blow up each other's nipples), but it's not something a woman should aspire to, or at least, not everything she should aspire to.

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Because sexy, precisely because it is relatively simple to achieve, when standing alone, fades very quickly.

Any woman can go anywhere armed with heels, fluttering hair, a good smell and cleavage, smile at almost any man and go to bed with him.

Come on, men are not very picky - you do not have to be 10/10 to be sexy and it is not very complicated to make men want to fuck you.

So the question arises - if it is so easy to feel sexy, why do so many women have a self-confidence problem?

Why do we look in the mirror and get angry about cellulite and the veins in our legs?

Why do we invest in wide and "unsexy" clothing to make ourselves feel good, tear ourselves up in gyms, go to treatments, workshops, psychologists and pay tens of thousands of shekels to pluck, slip, thicken, darken and clarify if all it takes to feel sexy is to put About ourselves sex and cleavage and start jumping from man to man?

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And the answer is that being sexy is not enough, mainly because we really do not want to be the woman everyone wants to fuck.

Maybe when we are young and think that ** standing is a sign of respect for doing something right, but later we realize that we want a million other things - like appreciation, respect, affection, confidence and also this thing that ultimately motivates us all - love.

And here's the catch, because while Diane is completely right and her chest is standing, a flat stomach and a round ass are a quick ticket to "sexy", for most women it is a very small particle of what they want to transmit and who they want to be.

The fact that both Ilana and Diana, whose whole purpose in the world is to be sexy, also want to be more.

That's why Diana was mad at Ilana and told her to think 10 times before she dived into Daniel's bed - because with all due respect to sexiness, she wants to be more and wants men to perceive her as more, and being an inflatable doll is not enough.

Maybe Diane will understand this at some point and maybe she will learn it the hard way, and maybe in the end, if she lasts long enough and peels off all these layers by herself she will become someone much more interesting and exciting, even without the cleavage.

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