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Fujian Affiliated Primary School Admissions Set up Parent Questionnaires Principal Xu Quyi Huaji Parents agree with the two major parenting concepts

2022-06-21T00:17:35.363Z


Whenever a primary school chooses a school, parents will consider in many aspects whether the school is suitable for their children, but have parents ever thought that the school will also choose parents, hoping that parents will be consistent with the school's philosophy? Popular DSS Primary School Kwun Tong Fujian Secondary School


Whenever a primary school chooses a school, parents will consider in many aspects whether the school is suitable for their children, but have parents ever thought that the school will also choose parents, hoping that parents will be consistent with the school's philosophy?


Xu Au Yihua, the principal of Kwun Tong Fujian Secondary School Affiliated School, a popular DSS primary school, revealed in an exclusive interview that he expects parents to have the same philosophy as the school, so as not to confuse students, so he will learn about parenting philosophy through questionnaires.

She expects parents to "let go" and "careful but not Chur" towards their children, be willing to believe that children want to make progress, give them opportunities to choose and fail, and exercise authority when appropriate, put forward appropriate requirements for their children, and work with the school together with the school. Nurture the next generation.


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Hope parents cooperate with "Harvard mother's dolphin rearing method"

Principal Xu said that the school's teaching model is close to that of international schools, and at the same time, it will adopt the good practices of local schools. Students should not feel too much pressure to go to school. They only need to complete the school's requirements. I hope that parents have the same philosophy as the school and avoid school and family requirements. Contradictions and conflicts affect student growth.

She said that parents of students are expected to cooperate with the "Harvard Mother's Dolphin Rearing Method" at home. "Parents need to ensure that their children are physically and mentally healthy and have adequate daily rest, and then exercise authority and make demands on their children at appropriate times."

Xu Quyihua, the principal of Fujian Secondary School Affiliated School, said that the school's teaching model is similar to that of international schools, and it will also adopt the good practices of local schools.

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Seriously but uh Chur: When is the right time to make demands on children

Principal Xu pointed out two of the key points of the "Dolphin Rehabilitation Law", namely "Be serious but not Chur" and "Let go and not let go".

Taking "Serious but not Chur" as an example, she said that if parents become tiger parents and tiger mothers, their children will be reluctant to try again after encountering failure. Therefore, they need to make demands on their children at the appropriate time and adjust their demands according to their age.

She revealed that there is a parent questionnaire in the school admissions interview to find out whether the concepts of the two sides are consistent. One of the questions in the questionnaire is: "Do parents agree that as their children get older, there should be different requirements?" She also pointed out that the results of the questionnaire showed that some parents It is considered that there is no need to adjust the requirements for children according to age.

Let It Go

As for "letting go and not letting go", it means that parents are willing to give their children choices, make them responsible for their own choices, and suffer failure and suffering. "In fact, parents themselves are often reluctant to accept their children's failures." She emphasized that letting go It does not mean that parents are completely laissez-faire. Parents need help and guidance from the sidelines. They also bluntly say that they are most afraid of parents saying "there is no way for them (children)".

One of the philosophy of Fujian Middle School Affiliated School is to believe that children can make progress if they want to do well.

(Photo by Chen Weici)

The school focuses on two concepts and believes that children can make progress if they want to do well

Regarding schools, Principal Xu said that the two major concepts of Fujian Affiliated Primary School include: believing that children can make progress if they want to do well, and the seven habits mentioned in the book "Habits with Success: Seven Habits of Highly Effective People", including: being proactive , First things first, start with the end, win-win thinking, know each other and understand oneself, integrate synergy and constantly update.

The school will follow the seven habits as the organizational direction. For example, it will "start with the end in mind" to design the school curriculum according to the abilities and characteristics that the ideal student should have in the school's mind.

She especially pointed out that if the parents adopted one set of students after returning home, and the school adopted another set, the students would be at a loss and would not know how to behave, so the school hopes

Primary One Registration|Fujian Affiliated Primary School set up 2 rounds of interviews in 2 stages each and the principal shared 2 must-see student characteristics

Source: hk1

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