Screenshot (Photo: from "Wedding at First Sight")

Oh, that's what scared Katya so much about finding couples over the weekend

Katya is anxious about the couple meeting, and shows distress that we are not used to seeing at the cold-blooded doctor.

What it means?

Does this prove that we were all right, that they are an unreliable couple and that things between them are not really as perfect as they say?

Anat Nissani thinks the opposite is true

Anat Nissani

23/06/2022

23/06/2022

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Since the research on my wedding has been published, I have noticed that everyone constantly emphasizes that we do not really know anything, that we have no idea what in the story is editing and what is not, and in general, that there are more attempts to curb criticism and express empathy towards participants.

If I had not met humans or myself before, I might as well have believed in this kindness and thought that we, as reality viewers, had really developed emotionally, but as I said - I met several human beings in my life, and I learned not to always believe what they say.

Why do I say that?

Because let's.

In the end, we all came to watch TV and we want it to be interesting.

True, none of us would really like to think that people are being exploited and harmed in favor of a TV show, but deep down we also have some fun when the matchmaking is not really appropriate, celebrating the caring moments, getting bored of episodes without dramas or quarrels, and not believing in love couples. .

That's why I rubbed my hands in pleasure in front of the promo that heralded yesterday's episode and showed that Katya is eating a serious movie ahead of the couples meeting.

Finally, the couple who seem to have everything really perfect, more perfect than all the most perfect couples of a hunter for generations, the couple who decided to give up their separate apartments for cohabitation in less than a month, which is never long, the couple even Yael looks at in amazement and says it does not make sense We have the proof that we are not wrong: it is really unreliable.

There is no perfect, and there is no situation where everything is as good for them as they say and now they too will compete and be miserable like everyone else.

The Surfer begins with hugs (Photo: Screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

After all, if everything was perfect, why would Katya be so stressed and apprehensive?

She arrives at the meeting with such a position of superiority over the other couples, with the crown of the "winning couple of the weekend" tattooed on her forehead - from a couple who come to the couples meeting in such a situation I would not expect to see anything but smug and delightful condescension over all other couples

. For example, this could be seen happening with statements like "I will try not to highlight what is between us" (and he did try really hard for two minutes), and "sincere" prayers like "Inshallah that all the couples here will succeed", or in other words: God But

Katya

does not feel the same but is stressed, scared, all the way there just wants to go home and talk without moving her lips because she locks her jaws - so it could be that unlike Lior, she is actually Not so sure about what is between them, even though she declares and acts like she does.

Excited and eagerly I watched the episode, waiting to see the explosion, the embarrassment at the table in front of everyone, the moment when the crack in both of them's perfect relationship would appear, but I did not see.

Because the whole episode was spread over the trip and not the meeting itself.

What I did see was another of her excuses: that she has no interest in this encounter, that it promotes neither her nor them, that it is not a natural situation.

It all sounds like she's not telling the whole truth, and besides - even getting married on TV to a person you've never met is unnatural, and you did.

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What, everyone met everyone in dynamics? (Photo: Screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

It got even weirder when she said, "I can not say I'm excited. Even before the wedding I was not excited like that" - Excuse me ?!

You stopped giggling in embarrassment only in the moments when you stood there frozen and could not look Lior in the eyes, you could hardly breathe with excitement!

And that's why I say you should not believe everything people say.

We all sometimes like to arrange reality for ourselves in a way that is convenient for us, that will bring us out the best or that will not force us to deal with parts of ourselves that we like less.

And Lactia, who is easily embarrassed and hides moments in which she evokes emotion with humor and cynicism, is more comfortable remembering that she was not moved by the canopy than admitting that the class influenced her more than she had planned.

But even though I had a party that kind of wanted to see this drama, and even though I really think she did not tell the whole truth and provided mostly excuses, her pressure is really not proof that their falling in love is unbelievable.

On the contrary - everything between them is really perfect, and maybe what scares

her is that something she will see or experience over the weekend will make her doubt Lior's feelings towards her.

In general, meet people when you specialize in surgery, and more in Be'er Sheva. This is actually the first time they came out of their bubble, a bubble where I believe they are comfortable in it and it's exciting, surprising and yes, feels a little illogical, especially for two people so rational, especially when they are constantly You hear it - from Yael, maybe from the families, maybe also from the content man who dubs them in the tests.

Vibe of vodka and peacocks.

Lior and Katia (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)

Maybe she, too, has begun to fear that it's too good to be true and is afraid to find out by comparison to the other couples that Lior is one of those men who falls in love with an idea and not the one who really stands in front of them (which is what half the talkbacks claim)?

All this happiness is still completely new to them, and a bit naive to accept it as a fait accompli without any doubts, what's more naivety is not a trait that characterizes Katya.

Either way, it's scary to get out of the bubble they've built for themselves, especially to meet other couples, which will be a kind of mirror to their relationship, make some of them think again about the idyll they built for themselves, and maybe even pierce it a bit.

But a relationship that only works in lab conditions has no real future, and as hard as it is to believe it is, sometimes love really works out that way right from the start - it's rare, it's amazing, and that does not mean they will have no problems or quarrels in the future. Relatively, because what is between them as hard as it is for us to believe - is completely true.

Will they make it to the meeting in peace?

At the moment it seems so.

Katyush's early acquaintance (or as the appraiser calls her: Tanyush) with May produces somewhat easing conditions, and according to the promo, dramas are expected on the table from other directions.

So she's stressed, but we know everything she does not know, and that is that her fears do not have much basis, and surely they will be fed a glass of wine already in the first hours of the meeting.

Especially relative to the other couples, what is between Lior and Katya is something that happens once on a blue moon, and nothing that happens in the couples' vacation will not spoil it - if at all, then on the contrary - they will only finally understand how much their luck has improved and how unmarried they are.

On the first meeting with May and Moshe (who apparently knows Lior from childhood), Katya discovers that already in sixth grade he was amazing, and she does not know what pleasure awaits her from the comparison to Limor and Liad, and even white and kind, and that is before she finds out In London by surprise, show me a weekend - or couples, who can challenge that.

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