The best sex of your life

Lately I meet women who are in the best moment of their life: full of health and confidence, they radiate the irresistible attraction of real beauty, the one that emerges from the acceptance of one's own nature with all its complexity.

And yet, many of them confess to me that they have become invisible.

Suddenly gone are the constant scrutiny, attention on the go, and unsolicited opinions about your appearance.

At first it's a disconcerting change, I guess because we haven't had any other way to measure our physical attractiveness.

But then comes a great relief: you no longer have to be getting rid of the bumblebees, your sexuality stops interfering in work, social, intellectual environments, etc.

At last your human condition is above your xx chromosomes.

Calm comes from traveling through this world without feeling constantly stalked.

Which does not take away an iota of sexism from the change:

That women over 40 are no longer perceived as attractive is the result of the fact that culture modulates the desire of men based on unequal relationships.

The mass media systematically censor the representation of those considered old.

If in movies, series and television programs the important protagonists are always in their thirties (at most), how is that not going to have effects in reality?

And it is not worth giving examples like Jennifer López, who invests huge amounts of money and time in appearing the age that she surpassed a long time ago so that later we can marvel at how well she is.

How can that not have effects in reality?

And it is not worth giving examples like Jennifer López, who invests huge amounts of money and time in appearing the age that she surpassed a long time ago so that later we can marvel at how well she is.

How can that not have effects in reality?

And it is not worth giving examples like Jennifer López, who invests huge amounts of money and time in appearing the age that she surpassed a long time ago so that later we can marvel at how well she is.

The great paradox of this ageist misogyny is that the sexual splendor of women comes precisely from the age of 40, when we have removed our complexes, our fears, we have lived long enough to realize the great deception spread by the body industry: that to have the right to fuck we have to prepare, wax, exfoliate, hydrate, file, paint, reduce, increase, tone, flatten and a long list of absurd requirements.

All this is consumption and an effective way of undermining the self-esteem necessary to offer ourselves to the other with joyful freedom.

From this age you know what you want, what you like and what you don't and you ask for it without hesitation,

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