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The reason why it's so hard for you is with Iggy Waxman's comeback

Iggy Waxman wants to return to the stage even though she is "already fifty", Sarah Jessica Parker is defined as "brave" because she does not dye hair - why is aging a phenomenon that hurts women more than men?

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27/06/2022

27/06/2022

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A few days ago I came across a story about Iggy Waxman's comeback, doing, wanting to do, no matter - the point is that she's tired of being an anxious mother and sitting at home, and she feels like coming back to the public eye as the gothic goddess.

In her PR interviews, Waxman

recounted reactions she received from her immediate surroundings, some of whom wondered with typical Israeli delicacy why she needed it, because she was "50 years old," so all she had to do was curl up in a rectangular hole in the ground and wait humbly for death.

Two days, and I totally understand it.There is something so insulting about an attitude that narrows you down to one arbitrary parameter that you have no control over, and that is the years that have passed since you were born - and even worse is the new set of rules that sticks with every passing moment. , You are allocated less space in the world, and there are fewer and fewer roles that you can fill - not necessarily physically - mainly in the minds of the people around you.

Sarah Jessica Parker, 57 (Photo: GettyImages)

I do not remember anyone ever asking Aviv Geffen why he continues to appear with mascara and eyeliner at age 49, for example.

No, mostly cheers for his evolving talent he gets, and his specific weight in the music world just keeps going up as he gets older.

Anyone come in complaining to Paul McCartney who bothered the whole world at his eighties party?

No.

It did not interest anyone if he had difficulty standing, interested them to come and hear him perform his music and experience a nostalgic moment.

In what segment can Iggy Waxman not make a comeback just like Zvika Pick has done about every decade since he reached the age of 45, as the BK did that they are no longer chickens either, and why does she not deserve an interview that respects her like the snake fish? You know, an interview Normal, one that talks about music, about creation - a bit of unmediated attitude from the media and the audience, with what expression of curiosity about the nature of her new music?

Because she's a woman.

There is no other reason.

She is a 50-year-old woman, and as is well known, women are not allowed to pass the age of 37. As if, it is allowed, but to hide behind a large pot that raises steam, and not make noise.

Remember Sarah Jessica Parker's gray hair event last summer?

The conclusions are similar.

Amalek: Parker was photographed sitting down to eat with a friend her age - and for many months she received many reactions - all about her appearance, her graying hair, and her "courage" to walk around like that, meaning the courage not to hide the fact that she is growing up, as if she

"I just do not understand why I should spend so much time thinking about it," Parker told Alor magazine in a recent interview, "it became months upon months

of

A conversation about how heroic I am that I walk around with gray hair, "she added:" Andy (Cohen, a 54-year-old TV presenter) has a full head of beautiful gray hair.

But no one mentioned him, and he was sitting right next to me. "

Cohen tried to defend his girlfriend, who snatched insults from right and left: "All the articles were 'Sarah Jessica Parker, Turns Gray' and 'She Looks Old.' It was crazy," he said during an interview of his own, but for Parker this Of course it was not the first time - also in the series "Just like that" she received similar feedback, especially in the context of the episode where her character goes to a plastic surgeon and leaves without injecting anything, as if it is the unnatural thing, and not the fact that women obsessively spend tens of thousands of shekels a year to stop The time.

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George Clooney, 61 (Photo: GettyImages)

We all grow up, but as a woman, getting older is a death sentence that makes you irrelevant in any area other than parenting and grandmothers, while growing up as a man is a process that may be scary for them too, but a process that society embraces.

For an adolescent man, unless his profession is directly related to his external appearance, adolescence does not so much affect his specific value in the market and his place in the world.

He can continue to be successful, work, sing, appear on TV and do anything physically possible for him.

Even to be considered a sexy and desirable man, and a worthy partner.

Women, on the other hand, lose almost everything, because their appearance has always been eighty percent of the basic requirements of the world - why?

Because unlike a man, a woman, no matter what profession, and even if she is unemployed, spends her time in bins, and sleeps in a ditch, should be young and beautiful.

She can be dumb, bad, canine, and predatory, that's fine.

Everything is forgiven her if she is young and beautiful, or at least maintained really, really well (Botox, dyed hair, and a menu that is mainly lettuce), and that is if she dared to cross the age of 40 and continue to roam the streets.

Take, for example, the new presenters, from Mionit Levy, to Tamar Ish Shalom, to almost every presenter who gets serious screen time in prime time - all beautiful, all thin and sweet - the kind that any commercial company would happily take on as presenters.

Very few of them look a little less good or have passed a certain age, even if they do - they get less air time, or slowly slide into side programs in the early or very late evening hours, until they retire voluntarily, while the layer of make-up on their face only thickens.

Kushmero, 54 (Photo: Reuven Castro)

Men, on the other hand, are mostly chosen according to professional parameters, and really do not have to be "studs" or "beautiful".

They have to show fluency, knowledge, professionalism (and even that is not always the case), and not everyone has to look like Danny Kushmero, who by the way, is 54. There are a lot of men on TV who look normal - like Or Heller, Raviv Drucker and Sefi Ovadia.

But a woman, no matter what field she is in, even if she is a restaurateur, for that matter, must in addition to her skills also look beautiful and young - otherwise she will meet a low glass ceiling quite quickly.

She may continue to be a chef, but her success will stop sometime and reach Plato.

As long as it is a glass, however - the sky is the limit.

And this is in stark contrast to the top chefs in the country, most of whom more or less look like the barrels from Ali Baba and the 40 bandits.

The connection between women's external appearance and their success in life in any field other than modeling must already be severed, and perhaps the connection between women's age and their perception of their level of desire in the eyes of the world will slowly be severed.

When talking about men, sex appeal is not the sum of their wrinkles and white hair, right?

Some men look great in our eyes even in old age.

Brad Pitt, 59 (Photo: GettyImages)

Men can be considered sexy at any age - society's view of an adolescent man is much more holistic, and includes other parameters besides appearance - success, money, status, intelligence, humor and more - all of which ultimately constitute the sexy "score" of the man in question at him.

Why is it impossible to look at women in the same way?

It is not possible for appearance to be the main, if not the only, parameter through which we are judged.

No one looks at Brad Pitt, or Matthew McConaughey, who everyone knows is over 50, checks the shade of gray in their hair and tells them grooves in the face like they do for any woman in her forties and dares to appear on TV.

On the contrary - if the gray hair already gives them a fatherly-sexy touch of confidence, adds charm to them - does not detract from them.

Sorry, but we deserve it too.

Because this is exactly how an entire sector is weakened - the threshold conditions for the machine "success in life" are raised more and more, until it gives up and gives up.

No no - do not fuck me in the brain about the age of fertility.

George Clooney has not been of childbearing age for two decades and is still voted the sexy man of some magazine every year when they come, crib death will no longer be here.

And don 't worry about Iggy Waxman.

There is no connection between her age and her ability to return to singing, and do not worry - a heat wave of menopause will not sweep and knock her off the stage in the middle of a performance.

Be calm.

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