Screenshot (Photo: from "Wedding at First Sight")

Kind of not delusional - Ben really conveys conflicting messages, which is why

The scene of Maayan and her cousin at the wedding at first glance drew many reactions, most of them encourage Maayan to get up and go because Ben is not interested in her.

Karin Arad thinks that Maayan is not delusional, and that Ben really sends a lot of conflicting messages to her.

Here is the explanation

Karin Arad

05/07/2022

05/07/2022

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A lot of judgment has flowed in the direction of Maayan and Ben recently, and since the trip to New York and the "I know that Ben also has feelings" that Maayan had with her cousin, the volume has risen to new heights, and not necessarily justified.

In other words - as great as resentment and criticism is, so great is the collective wound that this scene touches, and people are so quick to call it a kind of hallucination that does not see reality just because it is what scares them the most that will happen to them.

True, it's scary to be in this place where you seemingly do not understand reality and have no control over it - it's a great recipe to summon a sense of rejection every quarter of an hour or so, and anyone who has experienced massive rejection knows that it only works if you really want someone. , And how difficult it is to separate the need of the ego to receive its caress from the refined emotion itself.

Maayan and Ben are hard to watch because they revolve around rejection and fear of it, like two dogs the moment they get nervous before they decide whether to quarrel or be friends, and everyone around holds their breath.

And as if that's not enough, time and time again we experience together with a kind of the same "conversation" that haunts her from the moment of the canopy to the present day.

Enough, Ben has already killed us, with the "you are not my taste" conversation which is also accompanied by an explanation of the feelings he does not yet have, and strange regularities that he has no right to determine about Maayan's feelings and about the steps she may take like that time he just said without being confused Can't see his scenario that she gets up and goes.

What is he afraid of? (Photo: screenshot, Keshet 12)

Seriously?

Ever?

Indescribable impudence.

Although she's more concerned right now, it can be reversed in seconds if you change the balance of power, and secondly - as a woman who was once in love (or a hundred), Ben makes the mistake that a lot of people in this world make who think admitting you want someone is a weakness.

This is not a weakness, on the contrary - a person who allows himself to want openly is a person with a backbone, who allows himself to get carried away because he knows he can handle even a result that does not please him, that is - a strong person.

Weakness is actually being on the side that avoids at all costs from going for something to the end because of countless excuses that are all irrelevant, because in the end, whoever does not release control, does not do because he "does not want to hurt anyone's nephews", but because he is it Who is afraid, and therefore - weak.

So let's close this corner for a moment - a kind of non-idiot - if she says he has an emotion - he has an emotion.

Anyone who is in a romantic interaction knows if they are feeling for him and to what extent, and especially every woman knows where she is when someone is attracted to her and how much.

This is really not quantum physics when it comes to man.

If Maayan feels an attraction, there is probably an attraction, and that does not contradict the fact that Ben is not closed to himself about it.

Ben is not convinced that he is capable of being in a real relationship with Maayan, and that is his right.

He is also allowed to get confused, and he does not have to "cut" in the second that comes to his mind.

And he really can not be with her, but not for the reason everyone thinks.

Although Maayan's appearance is not the appearance that Ben's fantasizes about, and that's fine too - he was honest about it, which I think is commendable.

White is allowed to love more or less someone's form, and it works both ways.

His problem with devoting himself to her is not related to her appearance in his eyes, but more to the external appearance of both of them, as a couple, in front of the company.

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Good for him alone.

Ben (Photo: Screenshot, from "Wedding at First Sight")

On the one hand he is attracted to her, having fun with her, and it's good for him - and he's pretty sure that when he thought about it (I say it in the past tense because I have no doubt he finally succumbed to society's dictates) he had a hard time explaining to himself what prevented him from being all-in This wedding phrase, ya Allah), so he did not cut during the program but kept trying, that it is easier in a space where psychologists accompany you and help you feel it is okay to feel a little fucked up, or in Ben's case - help understand that you are not solely responsible for the normal mood Of all those around you, and that you are even allowed to screw up.

But what bothers White is not exactly what bothers White - only about.

In my opinion the size of a kind would not make him reluctant if they were just the two of them together, on a lonely island.

The plan is indeed a kind of island, but with neighboring islands, which is why we see him coming in and out of this crash, every time he meets the outside, and what he imagined his relationship would look like.

I do not want to imagine what landed on him when he came out of the bubble of the show, and all of everyone's thoughts began to mix with his.

In conclusion - a kind of non-idiot who lives in a movie - a reasonable chance that Ben not only wants more than you think, but wants more than even he sees.

Maayan is unlucky and is forced to stay in the big, dark gap between her son, the private, when no one sees them, and the public son who knocks an account of how things look and what it says about him, a son of everyone - the one who may see himself as a close wife Much more than a sort of period beauty ideal.

If this gap confuses Ben, it's probably the messages he conveys to a sort of confused as well, and she's rightly frustrated, because it sucks to be with someone who's clear to you who's about to give you up for the worst reason in the world, even though it's good for you. An hour, finding such a good connection with someone.

And the most frustrating is for him, when he finds out sometime in the future that he missed one of the most equal women he has ever met, because of something that ten years from now no one will even see.

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