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Shock: Expert reveals how long sex should really last
One of the things that bothers men about their performance in sex is how long they manage to last, and at the same time the clinical phrase "premature ejaculation" is one of the most stressful for the average man.
Worried that you finish too quickly?
You will be surprised
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07/08/2022
07/08/2022
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The phrase "rapid ejaculation" scares many men, and is considered an insult to bed performance, only slightly worse than jokes about inadequate penis size.
The length of time a man manages to last a continuous pump (and not because they care so much that you're done) is a direct confirmation of his level of potential in bed.
Maybe a lot of people could relax a bit if they looked at the real data that states indisputably that what you thought was "fast", is actually pretty average.
Nadia Bokodi, an Instagram influencer, raised the issue after having this conversation with her former bed partner.
According to her, for her, 20 minutes was enough, while he was ready to go on and on, for hours.
Nadia Bokodi (photo: screenshot, Instagram)
"An hour and a half after we started, I ended this sex-a-thon," she tells the magazine. , is shoving Doritos into my mouth while I watch Marie Kondo videos on YouTube."
Nadia began to research the subject and discovered some interesting studies from the past, the first of which was done by Alfred Kinsey in 1948, who ruled that three quarters of the men who participated in the study finished within two minutes and nothing more.
In 2008, a study was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, which stated that the average orgasm lasts between three and seven minutes, and another study stated that the range is large, starting from 33 seconds to almost an hour.
"What's interesting," she adds, "even though women overwhelmingly take longer to reach orgasm, men are the ones who usually want to continue for a longer time - and this is partly also related to the fact that many men treat porn as sexual education on one level or another."
Statistics say that at least a quarter of adults between the ages of 18 and 24 are influenced by porn scenes that depict sex marathons that last for hours, which must make them feel bad if they can't last more than ten minutes, and even more so if they finish in two minutes.
Now for real - how long do you last for sex?
5 minutes maximum
Between 5-15 minutes
Between fifteen minutes and half an hour
Over half an hour - an hour
More than an hour
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"To be honest" says Nadia - there is no such thing as "normal" or "abnormal" when it comes to sex. For some of us it should last all night, and for some of us it should end after no more than 20 minutes, and before prime time."
A viral post that went up on TikTok asked women and men how long they think sex should last, revealing that there are indeed big gaps in the answers: one answered "an hour", another responded - "an hour???? Who can have sex for an hour??? After 20 minutes I already Making a shopping list in my head."
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