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Neither Good Guy nor Bad Guy?

Static It's Complicated

Liraz Russo and Sharit Polak are going through a crisis in their relationship about a year after they got married, the media reports as of last night.

Apparently he left their apartment in Haifa, and the whispers hint that this crisis did not start now.

Karin Arad has a slightly more forgiving interpretation

Karin Arad

09/08/2022

09/08/2022

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Even though the media were very careful in handling the story of the unconfirmed rumors that were spread more than a year ago, regarding Liraz Russo's infidelity with Sherit Polak, with none other than the megastar who was also her mentor - Ella Lee Lahav.

The rumors also included an event in which an article was allegedly almost published in some entertainment program, an article that was shelved due to the intervention of Russo's attorney, and also the song full of hints and with the participation of Maya Jarris, Ella Lee Lahav's unfaithful partner at the time.

seemingly.

Pipiwo.

Rumors are rumours, and I purposely do not mention the name of the one who has been trying for years to discredit Static's name solely to raise himself, and has nothing to do with anyone else in the universe.

No matter what is true or not, there is something super ugly about trying to break out musically at the expense of other people's emotional state, what's more, he was not part of this "betrayal", and is not even a party to the story, which really does not deserve a mention.

It is clear to me that it is impossible to write about these relationships as if it were a married couple, and it is clear that no one really has any idea what is going on between them, why and how much, what is more, that these rumors have not yet been confirmed by any of the parties, (after they were denied at the time by Polk in the item that was broadcast only yesterday , after learning about the breakup).

And yet, still we all talk, because there's nothing like other people's relationships to make us forget ours - or the one we don't have, not to mention the satisfaction of proving the knowledge that the lives of celebs aren't perfect.

I know, I know, it doesn't present us in a particularly noble light, but we all do it anyway, and I also had a conversation with a friend about it yesterday.

The conversation started with the usual sentences that everyone says: "What, it was obvious that it wouldn't last."

Or "what a fool to cheat on his wife months after we got married", as if who would hear the timing is the problem, and of course the highlight "and another one with someone whose troubles in the decade he met as a judge on the show!".

Static and the one that doesn't deserve a mention (photo: screenshot, Instagram)

The last sentence is of course said with emotion, because there is no person in our country who is not shocked by a voluntary sexual relationship with large age gaps in favor of the man, what about them?

Unthinkable humidity.

At the same time, many accept the choice of Atzili and Micah with enlightened naturalness "No, listen - I wouldn't sleep with someone of that age - it just doesn't make sense to me - but in the end it's not forbidden by law."

So first of all - of course you weren't.

You are a very moral person.

But if we had to rely on the moral judgment of every individual in our country we would end up in a very bad place.

Oh, we're here already, aren't we?

Sorry I forgot myself.

In

any case, the point is that the age gap between them is not the problematic issue here.

The main thing that is important is that it is legal.

Except that you have to remember that we are all more attracted to young people - because they are more attractive!

Oh, we'll try to deny it right?

Okay, good luck with that.

I will continue with your permission.

The second thing is the betrayal.

Regarding this, I just want to ask - how many of us have really never cheated?

Because I completely understand what is behind the desire or need to cheat on a permanent partner, I have experienced it many times, and I dare to testify that it is normal.

There is a high probability that Sarit Pollak herself also experienced these feelings. Who hasn't lied?

Cheating is a very disgusting lie.

I did it to someone once, they did it to me, it's disgusting in both cases, and it's also terribly normal, of course after many years together.

It didn't happen "a year later", but six years later - six years is a lot of time for two people in their twenties, and there is no more sense than going through another development, changing, in your early thirties.

After all, they met when they were teenagers, probably during a complicated time for one or both of them, and stuck to each other because of some deep need that is not necessarily related to mature love.

You can't really expect people aged 20 and a bit to be closed minded about such a total choice.

If you take into account that Liraz Russo and Sharit Polak met in their youth, and at least recently do not lead completely normal lives but slightly different ones, and go through powerful experiences together and separately, it really makes sense that they will experience a crisis in their adulthood.

crisis?

Liraz Russo and Sharit Polak (Photo: Nir Pekin)

I have a theory that I believe in, which says that every person gets emotionally "stuck" at the moment of their most formative trauma.

That is, if they tried to rape me at the age of ten, in everything related to my sexual relations with men I remained a ten-year-old until the age of 40, because this place needed a lot of work to close the developmental gap.

I'm just giving options yes, but let's say it's traumatic for a child to find out he's adopted, right?

It is likely that he will have to recalculate a course in everything related to his family feelings, trust and closeness, and he will look for the security he lacks elsewhere.

Suppose that guy meets a girl his age, beautiful, inclusive, who understands him, and they fall in love at this critical moment in both of their lives - I assure you that it is not easy to say goodbye to someone who I have not only been with for years but also symbolizes for you the roots that you need so much.

Just let's assume.

And regarding the age gaps - if we take the same stagnant age of the trauma, apparently in certain aspects of self-perception this person walks around the world when he does not really feel thirty years old, and therefore when he meets someone who enters his heart for one reason or another, perhaps even because of her fragility, which reminds him of himself then - she evokes in him nostalgia for the period and he finds himself attracted - also to her, as a young and attractive woman, and especially to the memory she evokes in him, of a certain mental state.

There is a very good chance that when someone like this meets someone like Ella Lee, he doesn't really feel that there is an age gap between them, because as mentioned - biological age means nothing about our mental age.

Yes, I gave it a lot of thought.

It's a disturbing story precisely because it's quite clear that there is love between the couple, that the last thing he wanted was to hurt her, and I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to part with her either.

It's not contradictory - you can love someone very much and still hurt them, and that doesn't make you a bad person - just like people who have never betrayed anyone can be serial killers.

There is no "bad guy" or "good guy" behind this act that we call "betrayal" (as if this word does not have complex meanings like none other that touch the depths of the soul), there are many motives, the last of which, by the way, is related to love.

Much more often betrayal is connected with the inability to believe that you can be loved.

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